Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Ronald Wessling, age 84, of Carroll, unexpectedly passed away on Monday, August 7, 2023 at Spencer Hospital in Spencer, Iowa.

A funeral mass will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m. Saturday, August 12, 2023 at Holy Spirit Church – St. John Paul II Parish in Carroll. The celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm. Music will be by Jane Heithoff. Gift Bearers will be Ron’s grandchildren: Evan, Lauren, and Zach Wessling. Burial will be in Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Carroll with Military Honors conducted by the Carroll American Legion.

Visitation will be held at Holy Spirit Church from 9:30 to 10:15 a.m. on Saturday morning.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home and online condolences may be left for Ron’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Ronald, the son of Rudolph and Irene (Spieker) Wessling was born on July 14, 1939 in Templeton, Iowa. He was baptized on July 16, 1939 at Sacred Heart Catholic Church in Templeton. He attended grade school at Sts. Peter and Paul School and graduated from Kuemper Catholic High School in 1957.

After his formal education Ronald served in the United States Navy from June 16, 1957 until his honorable discharge on July 13, 1960. During his time in the Navy, Ron served at the United States Naval Training Center in Illinois, Corpus Christi, TX, Norman, OK, Jacksonville, FL and Naval Air Station North Island at San Diego, CA. After his discharge he returned to Carroll where he began working for Eddie Quinn Clothiers from 1960-1974. He then worked for Burkett’s Clothing from 1974 -1986, Burlington Coat Factory in Omaha, and the Graphic Edge in Carroll until his retirement in 2019.

Ron was an avid sports fan and followed the Iowa State Cyclones, Chicago Cubs, and the Chicago Bears. He enjoyed spending fall Saturdays at Jack Trice Stadium in Ames cheering on the Cyclones. Ron also enjoyed spending time with his grandchildren and following them with their sports and activities. Ron had a devout faith praying the Rosary daily and being an active parishioner at St. John Paul II Parish in Carroll.
Ron is survived by his two sons: Todd Wessling of Carroll, and Tim Wessling of Johnston; three grandchildren: Evan Wessling, Lauren Wessling, and Zach Wessling all of Johnston; and his former wife, Mary Wessling of Carroll.

Ron was preceded in death by his parents: Rudolph and Irene Wessling.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Todd, Tim and Mary, I am so sorry for your loss! I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. 🙏🙏🙏 God bless, Jodi (Stuhr) Wittry

Jodi Wittry – August 09 2023 at 1:12 PM

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Todd & family, So sorry for your loss. My thoughts & prayers are with you 🙏🙏🙏

Kristi Pudenz – August 09 2023 at 5:14 AM

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