Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Robert Iler, 97, of Carroll, died on Tuesday, December 23, 2025 at Addington Place in Carroll.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m. Monday, December 29, 2025 at St. Lawrence Church – St. John Paul II Parish in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Fr. Peter Pham. Music will be by Kathy Halbur and Sherry Loughran. Lector will be Phil Phillips. Gift Bearers will be Melanie Hundling, Lisa Grote, Mindy Iler, Kara Nitz, and KaLynn Morrison. Casket Bearers will be David Iler, James Nitz, Matthew Nelson, Brice Hundling, Jon Grote, and Don Wood, Jr. Burial will be in Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Carroll with Military Honors by the Carroll American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 3 p.m. to 5 p.m. Sunday, December 28, 2025 at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 5 p.m. Additional visitation will be held from 9:30 a.m. to 10:15 a.m. on Monday at St. Lawrence Church prior to the Mass.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll, and online condolences may be left for Bob’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Bob was born on March 1, 1928, in Lake City, Iowa, to Orley and Ruth (Snavely) Iler. Bob graduated from Lake City High School in 1945. After graduation, he enlisted in the Army Air Force for three years. Following his years of service, he spent two years working with his father on the farm. He married Rose Marie Lutwitze May 7, 1951, at Sts. Peter and Paul Catholic Church in Carroll.

Bob and Rose Marie began farming east of Lake City and continued farming in the area until 1990. That fall, they retired from farming and bought a home in Carroll. Bob enjoyed gardening and yardwork. He also did some woodworking and built model tractors. He and Rose Marie helped to deliver Meals on Wheels and volunteered at their church. They were members of St. John Paul II Parish, St. Lawrence Church.

They moved to Orchard View in Carroll in 2015. Addington Place of Carroll became their home in the spring of 2017. Bob loved taking care of Rose Marie until her death in 2022. After that, he kept busy with Bingo, Addington celebrations, and watching news, sports, and politics on TV. Bob was especially sharp with technology for his age. When Covid began, he learned how to FaceTime his daughters, a daily ritual that continued until a few weeks before his death. He especially enjoyed visits from his daughters and their spouses, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren. He was always excited to hear his nephews were coming to reminisce and share some laughs.

Bob is survived by his daughters, Sue (Jim) Nelson of Cherokee, IA, Nancy (Steve) Williams of Houston, TX, and Dianne Wood of Omaha, NE; eight grandchildren, and fourteen great-grandchildren.

Bob is preceded in death by his parents and mother-in-law, Rosalia Lutwitze; sons, Michael Iler and Robert Craig Iler; son-in-law, Donald Wood Sr.; brother, Max Iler; and sisters, Bonita Ricke and Jean Heim.

Bob’s daughters would like to thank St. Croix Hospice and Addington Place of Carroll for the excellent and dignified care and support they and their father received over these past weeks.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Dear girls, I’m so sorry to hear about your dad. He was my favorite. He nicknamed me “Cindy”. I’ll never forget his gentle smile. He always made me feel safe and loved. I will miss him so much. Linda Olerich

linda olerich – December 24 2025 at 9:33 PM

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Sincerely, IC Church (Cherokee) purchased the Beautiful in Blue for the family of Robert Iler.

Sincerely, IC Church (Cherokee) – December 24 2025 at 9:01 PM

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Medium Dish Garden was purchased for the family of Robert Iler.

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Sincerely, IC Church (Cherokee) planted a Memorial Tree in honor of Robert Iler.

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