Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

The wake service for Phyllis can be viewed at the following link: https://youtu.be/zJxSZMsYucg

The Funeral Mass for Phyllis will be live-streamed at the following link: https://youtu.be/2OYi3FdCaC8

Phyllis Steffen, 89 of Carroll, passed away peacefully Monday, June 28, 2021.

A 10:00 a.m. Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated Saturday, July 3, 2021 at St. John Paull II Parish – St. Lawrence Catholic Church in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Fr. Kevin Richter with the assistance of Deacon Scott Steffen and Deacon Dave Prenger. Music will be provided by Jane Heithoff and Katie Sparks. Lectors will be Terri Prenger and Rick Boes. Gift Bearers will be Trent Steffen, Raynee Sparks, and Janelle White. Honorary Casket Bearers will be Gavin Steffen, Christian Steffen, Brooke Steffen, Brittany Walker, and Ann Steffen. Casket Bearers will be Thomas Steffen, Bradley Steffen, Mark Steffen, Mitchell Sparks, Tyler White, and Eric White. Burial will follow in Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Carroll.The St. Anthony Hospital Auxiliary will form an Honor Guard for the funeral mass.

Friends may call at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll from 4-6 p.m. on Friday, July 2 with the Rosary at 4 p.m. and a Christian Wake Service at 6:00 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Lawrence Church on Saturday morning where visitation will be from 9-9:45 a.m. Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Phyllis’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Memorials in lieu of flowers may be given to St. Anthony Regional Hospital Auxiliary, the Salesian Missionaries (orphanage in Bolivia that granddaughter Ann is a Missionary and trying to get computers for), or Catholic Radio.

Phyllis was born on March 4, 1932 in Halbur, Iowa, the daughter of Richard and Leona (Reiman) Drees. She grew up around Carroll County living in Roselle, Halbur, Templeton, and Carroll. She graduated from St. Angela’s Academy before working at Carroll County State Bank, St Lawrence School, St. Anthony Hospital, and New Hope Village using her financial skills in each place. Phyllis Drees married Leo Steffen on October 15, 1960 at St. Lawrence Church in Carroll and celebrated 56 years of marriage. To this union were four children: Trent, Scott, Raynee, and Janelle.

Phyllis enjoyed time spent with family by talking Leo into purchasing a fold up camper and taking two week family vacations across the United States every year seeing sights from California to Washington DC. Phyllis enjoyed fishing, bowling, dancing and golfing with Leo. Together, Phyllis and Leo enjoyed her trips to Alaska, Hawaii, Texas and Arizona after retirement. The grandkids will always remember the hours of cards, games played around the table, learning to crochet, making puzzles, reading books, and playing croquet on the lawn. Not only did Phyllis teach cake decorating, she enjoyed crocheting blankets for the hospital. She was one of the first members of the St. Anthony Hospital Auxiliary, continuing to support it recently as a volunteer.

Phyllis is survived by her four children: Trent (Nancy) Steffen of North Carolina, Deacon Scott (Kathy) Steffen of Ames, Raynee (Tony) Sparks of Johnston, Janelle (Jack) White of Michigan; 14 grandchildren: Brooke, Gavin, and Christian (Claire) Steffen, Brittany (Trey) Walker; Thomas (Kelsey), Brad (Clare), Ann, Sarah, and Mark Steffen; Abbey (Kirby) Rock and Mitchell (Katie) Sparks; Tyler (Fiance Lauren), Karissa, and Eric White. She also has 11 great-grandchildren: Peter, Francis, Thomas Becket, Lucy, and Gianna Steffen; Jackson and Cecilia Rock; Andrew, Anna and Michael Sparks; and Magnolia Walker. Other survivors include her brother Lloyd (Mercedes) Drees, sister Diane (Ron) Venteicher; and brother-in-law Ken Steffen.

Phyllis was preceded in death by her parents Richard and Leona Dress; husband Leo Steffen; father and mother-in-law, Bernard and Corsini Steffen; sister Pearl Brown; brother Richard Drees; infant sister Eileen.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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I am sorry to hear about Phyllis. I met her when I worked on a few of her quilts. After lLeo was gone she was a little lost without him. I am glad she is able to join him in heaven

Ann VonDielingen – June 29 2021 at 1:22 PM

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Peaceful White Lilies Basket was purchased for the family of Phyllis Steffen.

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