Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Patrick Murray, 85, of Carroll passed away Friday September 23rd at the St. Anthony Nursing Home in Carroll surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m. Thursday, September 29, 2022 at Holy Spirit Church – St. John Paul II Parish in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Fr. Kevin Richter. Music will be by Kathy Halbur. Casket Bearers will be Jacob Wenck, Levi Wenck, Chris Boggs, Sean Sauvago, Frank Murray, Kent Nulle. Burial will be in Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Carroll with military honors conducted by the Carroll American Legion.

Visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Wednesday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll. The casket will be moved to Holy Spirit Church on Thursday morning where visitation will resume from 9:30 a.m. to 10:15 a.m.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to the Carroll Volunteer Fire Department.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Patrick’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Born December 28th, 1936 in Sioux Rapids, Iowa, Patrick William Murray was the son of Frank and Myrna (Webster) Murray.

He attended grade school and high school at Sacred Heart School in Pocahontas, Iowa. After graduating high school, he entered the US Marine Corps during the Korean conflict. Pat was pretty handy with a firearm and was awarded the status of “marksman” and acted as a shooting instructor while serving his country. He was honorably discharged in 1957.

After serving his country he moved to Prescott, Arizona to be the head mechanic at his father’s service station. It was there, in Prescott, where he met the love of his life, Sharon Kellerman.

He married Sharon Kellerman on April 28th, 1962 in Prescott, Arizona. Pat and Sharon made their home in Phoenix, Arizona and Pat was employed at Arizona Public Service.

In 1976 he moved his family to Carroll, Iowa and with the help of his sons established the family business, Murray’s Welding & Machine. Pat stood alone in his craft and soon became very popular because of his friendly demeanor and because he so impressed people with his abilities.

Pat was a locomotive steam engine buff and had a collection of books and videos on steam engines plus a model railroad collection he acquired while serving overseas during his stint in the Marines. He was also a big fan of sprint car races and never missed the Knoxville Nationals.

Pat was a fierce card player and especially enjoyed the game of Progressive Rummy, unless of course he was losing to you.

Although he loved his children very much, he was a strict father and always made his children earn what they wanted and never spoiled them in anyway. His children quickly learned that these same rules do not apply to grandchildren as “Papa” could not get enough of his grandchildren and spoiled them every way he knew how.

Survivors include his wife: Sharon Murray of Carroll; his children William Murray of Ottawa, Canada, Fredrick Murray of Carroll, Iowa, Kenneth Murray of Carroll, Iowa and Diana Murray of Coralville, Iowa; 6 grand-children and 3 great grandchildren; as well as two brothers, Larry Murray (Jane) of Camp Verde, Arizona and Mark Murray of Cottonwood, Arizona.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Frank & Myrna Murray, one sister Kathleen (Bill) Kates, and brother, Mike (Dorothy) Murray.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Tribute Wall

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So sorry for your loss. He was an interesting man to talk to. He will be missed. Steve and Ann VonDielingen

Ann VonDielingen – September 24 2022 at 9:09 PM

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Patrick was so very generous and his family were always his priority. A lovely, lovely, man! I love you Pat.

Sharon L MacLachlan – September 25 2022 at 8:26 AM

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Dear Sharon and Family: Although the miles between you and us here in Canada meant that we rarely saw your lovely family, we wanted you to know how deeply sorry we are for your loss of Patrick. We remember a fine man with a great smile and a fondness for our Canadian Tire stores! Please know that we might be far away but our thoughts are with you and you are in our hearts. Sincerely, Ron and Connie Shaw (Sharon's sister and brother-in-law)

Connie Shaw – September 28 2022 at 9:58 PM

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Lit a candle in memory of Patrick Murray

Sharon L MacLachlan – September 25 2022 at 8:24 AM

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Pat Murray was an amazing man who would tell you like it is! He was a family man who loved his family. He was a planner. I remember when Pat and Sharon decided to move from Phoenix back to Carroll, Iowa how he was meticulously planned for months in advance. He built the trailer he would use to move his family and knew exactly what he would take with him. He was a buyer of goods. He loved to go to the swap meets and buy tools and used items he could repurpose. He loved the car races and I remember him taking his boys to the race track with him and their excitement about that outing. Pat will be missed. We love you Pat! Our condolences to Sharon and the family! We love you so much!

Maggie Dodd Kasparek – October 03 2022 at 11:49 AM

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