Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Norma Dillehay, age 77, of Carroll, Iowa, died Saturday, June 25, 2011, at her residence in Carroll following a battle with cancer.
Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 A.M., Wednesday, June 29, 2011, at St. Lawrence Church in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Father Timothy Johnson. Lector will be Clair Otto. Gift Bearers will be granddaughters, Jana Hendry, Bailey Jo Dillehay, Brooke Brown, and Abby Bayliss. Eucharistic Ministers will be Clair and Lou Ann Otto and Jerry Tigges. Honorary Pallbearers will be Phyllis Drees, Bonnie Thein, Gail Potthoff, and Estherline Blum. Casket Bearers will be grandsons, Jared Stangl, Dustin Raymond, Quinn Raymond, William J. Henss, Benjamin Dillehay, and Adam Bayliss. Burial will be at Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Carroll.
Friends may call at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll after 3:30 P.M. Tuesday. A rosary will be prayed at 4 P.M. Tuesday followed by a Christian wake service at 7 P.M. Tuesday by St. Lawrence Parish. Memorials may be left at the funeral home or church for St. Anthony Hospice.
Norma was born on August 10, 1933, at Carroll, Iowa, the daughter of Anton and Veronica “Fronie” (Simons) Bluml. She spent her life time in the Carroll community and attended St. Augustine School in Halbur and graduated from Carroll High School with the Class of 1952. Norma and Darrell Dillehay were married on August 20, 1953, at St. Lawrence Church in Carroll. Norma and Darrell were the Carroll Agents for Iowa Parcel Service from 1968 to 1980 and were also Contract Carriers for the Des Moines Register and Carroll Daily Times Herald. She had been employed a few years by the Sharp Florist and Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll. Norma was a foster grandparent for the Retired Senior Volunteer Program and was most recently employed by the Carroll Area Day Care Center where she enjoyed each day with her three year olds. She was a member of St. Lawrence Parish, Parish Ladies Guild, and the Carroll High School Alumni Association. Norma enjoyed reading, traveling, collecting miniature tea sets, and attending her grandchildren’s activities.
Norma is survived by her children, Deborah Stangl and Craig Swedenburg of Lincoln, Nebr., Diane Raymond and Rick Spack of Carroll, Dawn Henss and her husband William C. of West Des Moines, Scott Dillehay and his wife Becky Jo of Carroll, and Ronda Bayliss-Ott and her husband Roger of Jefferson; eleven grandchildren, Jared (Elizabeth) Stangl, Jana (Chad) Hendry, Dustin (Mindy) Raymond, Quinn Raymond, William J. (Ariel) Henss, Benjamin Dillehay, Bailey Jo Dillehay, Brooke (Chris) Brown, Adam (Amanda) Bayliss, Abby Bayliss, and Roman Ott; six great grandchildren; a sister, Jolene Neuerburg and her husband Bob of Ceres, Calif.; and brothers-in-law and sisters-in-law, Jerry and Patti Schmeiser of Macomb, Mich., Leola “Babe” Dillehay of Ft. Dodge, and Howard Whitaker of Garden Grove, California.
She was preceded in death by her parents; her husband, Darrell Dillehay, in December 1998; her son, Troy Dillehay, in January 1998; a sister, Joyce Schmeiser; a brother, Paul Bluml; a son-in-law, Kevin Stangl; two brothers-in-law, Duane Dillehay and Gilbert Dillehay; and her parents-in-law, O.Z. and Hazel Dillehay.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Dawn and family, I am sorry to hear about your mom. She was always such a sweet person...she put up with our shenanigans with grace and patience! I hope you find comfort in all your wonderful memories.

Jeanne Harman Hammen – July 06 2011 at 10:42 AM

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Dawn and Dillehay Family - Please accept my sincerest sympathy on the loss of your mother. I will keep you all in my prayers.

Lucy Furey – June 28 2011 at 12:06 AM

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Deb, Diane, Dawn, Scott, and Rhonda -- I am so sorry for your loss. I will always remember your mom with a smile on her face. I ran into her at the Willey porkchop dinner a couple years ago, and she gave me a big hug. With sympathy and love, Pat Ripley

Pat Ripley – June 27 2011 at 3:59 PM

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Much Love to you Dawn and your Family, may God Bless.

Shirley Hoefer&Nick Gojmeric – June 27 2011 at 12:22 PM

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Our family is saddened to hear of the loss of such a wonderful lady! We extend our most heart-felt sympathy to the family of Norma. May you each find some comfort in knowing that our Dear Lord only takes the very best and that our wishes to each of you comes with love and prayers! God's Blessings.

Beth Danner – June 26 2011 at 9:01 PM

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