Norbert “Fiddle” Grote

11/26/1931 –
11/01/2018

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Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Norbert “Fiddle” Grote, age 86, of Carroll, formerly of Glidden, died early Thursday morning, November 1, 2018 in Carroll, Iowa.
Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m. Tuesday, November 6, 2018 at St. John Paul II Parish – St. Lawrence Church in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Fr. Shinoj Jose. Music will be by Kate Cuddy and the St. Lawrence Choir. Lectors will be Julia Cantu and Taylin Wittrock. Gift Bearers will be Victoria, Natalie, Tianna and Tiffany Wittrock, and Dacoda and Dawson McCrea. Eucharistic Minister will be Joe Kemper. Casket Bearers will be Doug Wittrock, Dave McCrea, T.J. Schouten, Jorge Cantu, Henry Cantu, Dustin Veldhuizen, and Matt McLaughlin. Burial will be at Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Carroll with military honors conducted by Breda American Legion.
Friends may call at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll after 4 p.m. on Monday where there will be a Carroll Knights of Columbus Rosary at 5 p.m., and a Christian Wake Service at 7 p.m.
The casket will be moved to St. Lawrence Church on Tuesday morning, where visitation will resume from 9:30 to 10:15 a.m. Memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for Kindred Hospice.
Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll, and online condolences may be left for Fiddle’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.
Norbert, the son of Herman and Colette (Schettler) Grote, was born on November 26, 1931 at St. Anthony Hospital in Carroll, Iowa. He grew up west of Mt. Carmel, and graduated from Our Lady of Mt. Carmel School in 1949. On May 4, 1953, Fiddle was inducted into the United States Army, serving during the Korean Conflict. He was a member of the 10th Medium Tank Battalion, stationed from Camp Chaffee, Arkansas. He was honorably discharged on March 5, 1955.
After his honorable discharge, he returned to the Carroll area where he began farming. On June 17, 1961 he was united in marriage to Marlita Kemper at Sacred Heart Catholic Church in Templeton. The couple made their home east of Carroll. In addition to farming, Fiddle clerked for Farmers Livestock Auction for many years. He also sheared sheep, dehorned cattle, and was an order-buyer of cattle for several area farmers. Fiddle enjoyed playing cards, and trips to the casino. Most of all he enjoyed gardening, and sharing his bountiful produce with many neighbors, family, and friends.
Left to celebrate Norbert’s life is his children: Laura (Dennis) Mayer of Lindale, Texas, Susan (Robert) VanScoy of Grimes, Teena (Jorge) Cantu of San Antonio, TX, Thomas (Mary) Grote of Audubon, and Jacklyn Grote of Carroll; 9 grandchildren; and 12 great-grandchildren.
Also surviving are his siblings: Jack (Doreen) Grote of Carroll, James (Mary Ann) Grote of Cave Creek, AZ, Bill (Nancy) Grote of Withee, WI, Ted (Peggy) Grote of Gibson City, IL, Jeane (John) Rosener of South Sioux City, NE, Mary (Leonard) Sailer of Manning, Alice (John) Hamilton, of Jefferson, Judy (Duane “Butch”) Olberding of Iowa Falls; sister-in-law: Joyce Grote of Minooka, IL; brother-in-law: Lyle Vonnahme of Carroll; as well as many nieces, nephews, and other extended family.
Norbert was preceded in death by his Wife, Marlita in 1985; two children in infancy: Gerald and Theresa; his parents, Herman and Colette Grote; his brothers: Paul, Ralph, and Leonard Grote; his sister: Lorraine Vonnahme; and a sister-in-law: Irma Grote.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Hi to All So sorry to hear about your Dad. Sorry also that we can't be there for the services. We are in Florida right now. Would love to see all of you, as it's been so long! Know that we will keep all of you & Fiddle in our prayers! Sheri & Gary Schon

Sheri Schon – November 02 2018 at 1:31 AM

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We live on the farm Fiddle raised his family in. We saw him every day. We will deeply miss him.

Ashley Kuhlman – November 06 2018 at 1:47 PM

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I got aquainted with Fiddle when he would come to Denison Livestock on saturdays years back. Always enjoyed his humor and kindness. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. God's Blessings.

Jerry Boger – November 03 2018 at 1:31 PM

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So Sorry to hear about Fiddle. The kids grew up looking out the window and yelling " There goes Fiddle". He would drive by our house on the way to his farm everyday to work on his garden or lumber projects. He was a very good man.

Brincks – November 03 2018 at 8:47 AM

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We have fond memories of Fiddle and family. Some time ago we were in the wood chopping mode due to wood burning furnaces. The guys did the log chopping and the women and kids gathered the wood, First on a hay rack and then again where it was to be devided and stored. Of course everyone (Kohorsts, Wielands, Felds, and Maschings) were rewarded with refreshments afterwards and it was friends having fun. One of the funniest memories involved Fiddle on a New Years Eve in Angels restaurant. He was an angel himself, always with a friendly hello. Our sympathy, Jim and Joyce Masching

Joyce Masching – November 05 2018 at 1:45 PM

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