Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Neysa Siepker, age 24, of Carroll, passed away unexpectedly, on Monday, June 25, 2018, at her home in Carroll.

Public visitation will be held on Thursday, July 5, 2018 from 4 until 7 p.m. at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll. There will be a time of sharing at 7 p.m.

A private family Funeral Service will be held on Friday, at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll. Fr. Brian Feller of St. John Paul II Parish will officiate. Casket Bearers will be Sara Siepker, Rob Lavin, Dan Snyder, Glen Snyder, Alan Snyder, and Doug Snyder. Burial will be in St. Bernard’s Cemetery in Breda.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home to be made in Neysa’s name for a later memorial contribution.

Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll, and online condolences may be left for Neysa’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Neysa was born on May 25, 1994 at Scottsdale, Arizona, the daughter of Brian and Lisa (Snyder) Siepker. At a very young age the family returned to the Carroll Community where Neysa was raised. At the age of 13 Neysa was diagnosed with epilepsy. It was a difficult journey in the beginning, but she learned to not let it define her or determine the path of her life. Neysa graduated from Carroll High School in 2013. While in high school Neysa was active as a manager for the football and soccer teams. She enjoyed the social aspect of school, but hitting the books was not her strong suit as she would say.

Following her formal education Neysa worked at New Hope Village, and later Pizza Ranch, which would become her home away from home. She enjoyed her co-workers, and interacting with the people. Neysa loved the hustle and bustle and the “goodies” that came at the end of the night.

Neysa enjoyed puzzles, Sudoku, coloring with her sister Olivia, video games, billiards, Netflix, and music of any kind. She enjoyed any game but especially the games that she played with her “social” friends when they were enjoying the nightlife. Neysa played Volleyball with her dad on the American Home Shield Team. She loved being a part of the team.

Neysa was a talker and could spark up a conversation very easily. She had a heart of gold and would take the time to visit or just give a hug. Her family was very important to her, and she was proud to be a daughter, and sister. When she did not see them daily, she would call or text just to say “hi” or “what’s up”.

Left to cherish her life are her parents: Brian and Lisa Siepker of Carroll; her sisters: Olivia, Sara, and Emerald Siepker all at home; paternal grandfather: Larry Siepker of Carroll; paternal grandmother: Jeanne (Kenny) Thorley of Wickenburg, AZ; as well as numerous aunts, uncles, cousins, and many friends.

Neysa was preceded in death by her maternal grandfather: Roger “Rocker” Snyder, and her maternal grandmother: Bette Snyder.

If there was one memory we could leave you, is that Neysa had a huge heart for people, especially her family. She was so proud of her sisters, and all they were accomplishing in their lives. She loved to kiss and hug, and usually was not the first one to let go. Neysa had a tattoo on her shoulder. It was a quill that spread out into birds flying, and with it, it said: “sometimes you have to fall before you can fly.” You test out those new wings now Nees, they are all yours.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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I had the privilege of meeting Neysa when Brian (her dad) brought her by my classroom to introduce her to me. I have a vivid recollection of this beautiful young lady who was able to identify a beautiful mural in my classroom of a Greek island. Neysa had an infectious smile and a wonderful personality when I met her. When I received a call from Brian notifying me of her sudden passing, I was at a loss for words and could only express my deepest condolences to Brian and Lisa for this tragic loss. Rest assure she is continuing to be the wonderful young lady that I met and everyone knew. Neysa has left her mark with so many who were fortunate to have known her.I am grateful I had that opportunity My deepest condolences, Mark Kafouros (Coach K)

mark kafouros – July 03 2018 at 8:13 PM

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Lisa, my thoughts and prayers to you and your family during his difficult time.

Jim Boyd – June 27 2018 at 12:27 PM

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Lisa and Family, I am so very sorry for your loss. I am deeply saddened to hear of Neysa's passing. Please know that I am thinking of you and your family at this very difficult time. I am so sorry.

Lynn – June 27 2018 at 3:42 PM

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To the Siepker family, I am truly sorry for your loss. I enjoyed visiting with Neysa when working with your family and when I seen her at New Hope. She was a very vibrant young woman. Your family will be in my thoughts during this time.

Shauntee Winey – June 27 2018 at 9:28 PM

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Lisa, Brian and family, I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers during my difficult time.- Jill Peters-Palmer

Jill Peters-Palmer – June 28 2018 at 6:48 AM

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