Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Neoma Ludwig, 95 of Carroll, died late Tuesday evening, February 3, 2015 at St. Anthony Regional Hospital in Carroll.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m. Monday, February 9, 2015 at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Catholic Church in Mt. Carmel. The Celebrant will be Fr. Gary Snyder. Con-Celebrant will be Fr. Lynn Bruch. Mass Servers will be Devon Bauer, Dakota Bauer, and Grant Wiederin. Music will be by Ann Pottebaum and Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Choir. Lectors will be Neoma’s granddaughters: Sara Hobson and Jennifer Howder. Gift Bearers will be Neoma’s granddaughter, Mandy Lippolt, and great-grandchildren: Kaydon Erpelding, Kinzie Erpelding, Jacoby Hobson, and Jack Gehling. Honorary Casket Bearers will be Neoma’s granddaughters: Cindy Greiman, Sharon Erpelding, Sara Hobson, Jennifer Howder, Katie Leonard, and Mandy Lippolt. Casket Bearers will be Neoma’s grandsons: Kenneth Erpelding, Curtis Erpelding, Jeff Ludwig, Nick Gehling, Chris Gehling, and grandson-in-law Josh Hobson. Burial will be in the parish cemetery.

Friends may call at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll after 2:30 p.m. on Sunday where there will be a Rosary at 3 p.m. and a Christian Wake Service at 5 p.m.

Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll, and online condolences may be left for Neoma’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Born on May 20, 1919, Neoma was the daughter of Joseph and Catherine (Leiting) Loeffelholz. She grew up in the Mt. Carmel area, and attended school at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel School. On February 18, 1941, Neoma was united in marriage to Arthur Ludwig at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Catholic Church in Mt. Carmel. The couple made their home north of Mt. Carmel where they were both active in the grain and livestock farming operation. In addition to helping Arthur on the farm, Neoma was a devoted homemaker. Neoma enjoyed her prayer and coffee groups, sewing, crocheting, and gardening. She was an ardent choir member, and enjoyed music. Most of all, Neoma enjoyed the time she spent with her family the most. Neoma was a lifelong, active member of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Parish.

Left to celebrate Neoma’s life are her children: Dennis (Connie) Ludwig of Mt. Carmel, Eileen (Dave) Gehling of Wall Lake, and Joleen (Dave) Erpelding of Lake View; 11 grandchildren; 11 great-grandchildren; her siblings: Ella Mae Staiert of Harlan, Marguerite Broich of Carroll, Joann Manemann of St. Charles, MN, Alfred (Carol) Loeffelholz of Lennox, SD, Paul (Kay) Loeffelholz of Bozeman, MT. Mary Ann Ragaller of Westside, Ralph (Sandy) Loeffelholz of Cedar Rapids, Don (Karen) Loeffelholz of Kansas City, MO, as well as many nieces, nephews, and other extend relatives.

Neoma was preceded in death by her parents, husband Arthur in 1985, a son Larry Ludwig in 2007, and her siblings: Walter Loeffelholz, Mardella Baumhover, and Mary Madelyn Loeffelholz in infancy.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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I will never forget a few years ago on Christmas Eve, mass was in Mt Carmel, we had to sit in the choir loft. I complained about the narrow & steep steps, and that I was too old to be climbing those stairs,then I noticed Aunt Neoma who is twice my age and she was there singing in the choir. Made me smile:) Rest in peace Neoma reunited with Art once again. My deepest Sympathy to the Ludwig Family LouAnn (Schulte)Vulgamott

LouAnn Schulte Vulgamott – February 04 2015 at 3:34 PM

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Neoma was a wonderful lady and we will miss her. Cindy Klocke and Dale Schechinger

Cindy Klocke – February 05 2015 at 1:05 PM

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Our sincere sympathy to your entire family. John & Maureen Allan

Maureen Allan – February 06 2015 at 9:39 AM

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I always enjoyed Aunt Neoma and her sweet smile. There were always giggles going on when the Aunts (sisters) all got together, it would always make me laugh. My deepest sympathies to all the Ludwig family and I am comforted that she has joined Uncle Art and Mom & Dad. Diane Loeffelholz Zubrod and Family

Diane Zubrod – February 07 2015 at 2:53 PM

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My deepest condolences to Neoma Ludwig family. May you find comfort in your loving memories and in God's promise to soon "swallow up Death forever" and "wipe away the tears from all faces" (Isaiah 25:8). While grief at the loss of Neoma Ludwig is great , have the joy at welcoming her back in the earthly resurrection will be greater (Mark 5:42).

Denise Morgan – February 14 2015 at 10:24 AM

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