Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Michael Irlbeck, 56, of Carroll, died Wednesday, January 15, 2014 at Iowa Methodist Medical Center in Des Moines.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10 a.m. Saturday, January 18, 2014 at St. Lawrence Catholic Church in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Fr. Timothy Schott. Music will be by Marcy Anderson, the St. Lawrence Choir with Jake Gute as cantor. Lector for the funeral mass will be Paul Louis. Gift Bearers will be: Curt, Cody, and Cyler Irlbeck. Eucharistic Minister will be Cheryl Stork. Casket Bearers will be: Mark Tiefenthaler, Daryl Reiling, Ed Wehr, Matt Stork, Ron Lingel, Dean Stork, Keith Riley, and Bill Linde. Burial will be at 1 p.m. Saturday at Sacred Heart Cemetery in Templeton.

Friends may call at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll after 4 p.m. on Friday where there will be a Christian Wake Service at 7 p.m.

The casket will be moved to St. Lawrence Church at 8:30 a.m. on Saturday where visitation will resume until time of the funeral mass.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for Kuemper Catholic Schools Foundation or St. Anthony Hospice.

Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Mike’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Born on May 11, 1957 at Carroll, Iowa, Michael was the son of Sylvester and Ardella (Bluml) Irlbeck. He attended Sacred Heart School in Templeton and later graduated from Kuemper Catholic High School in 1975. On September 1, 1979 he married Mary Ann “Mern” Wernimont at St. Lawrence Church in Carroll. Mike worked in the automotive and farming industries for several years and was currently employed at American Home Shield in Carroll. He enjoyed fixing up his rental properties, working on projects with his boys, and traveling and spending time with his family and friends. Mike was a member of St. Lawrence Parish in Carroll.

Survivors include his wife Mern Irlbeck of Carroll; three sons: Curt Irlbeck and special friend, Leslie Holsapple of West Des Moines, Cody Irlbeck of Carroll, and Cyler Irlbeck of Grand Forks, ND; his mother, Ardella Irlbeck of Templeton; his siblings: Joan Seddon of Templeton, Don (Denise) Irlbeck of Templeton, Jan (Jack) Wafful of Carroll, Gary (Shell) Irlbeck of Templeton, Kevin (Lynn) Irlbeck of Carroll, and Joleen (Tony) Janssen of Glidden; his mother-in-law: Marie Wernimont of Carroll; his sisters-in-law and brothers-in-law: Connie (Paul) Louis of Palo, Tom Wernimont of Wisconsin, Carolyn (Dan) Thies of Cedar Rapids, Dick (Marcie) Wernimont of Carroll, Jerry Wernimont of Carroll, and Tim (Renee) Wernimont of North Carolina; as well as many nieces, nephews, other extended relatives, and many friends.

Mike was preceded in death by his father, Sylvester Irlbeck; his brother, Dale Irlbeck; and his father-in-law, Walt Wernimont.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Mern and family, Sending our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. God Bless Kay Pudenz Defreece and family

Kay DeFreece – January 17 2014 at 3:34 PM

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Mern and the family, I am praying for you and your family during this difficult time. I pray you find strength and comfort. I am so sorry for your loss. Lori Smith (AHS - LaGrange, GA)

Lori Smith – January 17 2014 at 7:10 AM

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Words seem inadequate to express the sorrow felt by your loss. My thoughts are with you.

Forrest Faulk – January 17 2014 at 9:08 AM

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Mern and family My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. May God's embrace help comfort you and your family. Rae (AHS)

Debra Rae Campbell-Barron – January 17 2014 at 10:05 AM

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My thoughts and prayers are with your family and loved ones.

Reo Menning – January 17 2014 at 10:08 AM

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