Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Mary Weidner, age 90, of Ralston, died Friday, April 26, 2024 at her home in Ralston.

A public visitation will be held from 5-6:30 p.m. on Wednesday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll. A prayer service will be held at 6:30 p.m.

A private funeral service will be held at Peace Lutheran Church in Glidden with Pastor Alan Miller officiating. Burial will be in Merle Hay Cemetery.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll, and online condolences may be left for Mary’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

The oldest child of George C and L Wilma Siegenthaler, Mary Alice (Siegenthaler) Weidner, 90, was born at home in Menlo, Iowa, March 4, 1934. She was joined by 4 sisters and 2 brothers, and graduated from Cooper High School in 1952. While in high school, Mary played 6 on 6 girls’ basketball and was known for her beautiful soprano voice.

Immediately following high school, she married and was blessed with her daughters.

She worked at Finn Photography Studio in Jefferson while raising her family. During that time, Mary met Harold Weidner. They married on December 30. 1964 in Blair, Nebraska, with her daughters in attendance. Soon after, the family moved to Glidden and Mary and Harold began a life of partnership.

Weidner Service Center began in 1968, starting first as a Felco gas and repair center, followed by Gulf, and later, a Mobil station after moving across Highway 30. Mary served as bookkeeper, parts runner, gas pumper, oil checker and windshield washer in the days of full-service gas stations.

The couple’s partnership continued on their acreage, known as Fleecy Hollow, where they raised sheep and operated a truck farm.

Later Mary worked at B & H Super Valu in the deli, General Electric and as a very successful Avon lady. In 1992, Mary began a 28-year career at Walmart, where she retired in 2020 at the age of 86. Mary was affectionately known as the “voice of Walmart.”

Never known to slow down, Harold and Mary started a new enterprise, Pappy’s Kettle Corn. They traveled the western portion of Iowa, making friends along the way.

Surviving Mary are her daughters, Cindy (Glenn) Kerkhoff of Glidden, Belinda (Kelly) Caldwell, of Carroll, and Billie (Dan) Wenck, of Glidden; step-children: Denise Clapp of Waterloo, and Mike (Michelle) Weidner of Waterloo; Four grandchildren, Brooke (Andrew) Galinsky and their children, Samuel and Norah of Waukee; Christopher (Abby) Wenck and their children, Lane, Stella and Reese of Carroll; Emily (Jonathan) Greteman and their children Adeline and Cora of Waukee and Morgan Rushton of Grand Junction, Colorado; step-grandchildren: Kahla (Steve) Dutcher and their daughter Hattie, Jessica Clapp and her children: Maddox, Owen, Britton; Andrew Weidner, Lauren Weidner; an ex-son-in-law: Jim Rushton of Glidden; sister, Andi Blume of Ames; Brother-in-law, Dean Ury; Sisters-in-law, Florence Siegenthaler of Jefferson and Carol Miller of Marshalltown; many nieces and nephews; and her special friend, Glennda Klommes of Carroll.

Preceding Mary in death were her husband, Harold in 2007; grandson, Cameron Kerkhoff in 1989; her step-son-in-law, Bill Clapp; her parents George and Wilma Siegenthaler; her parents-in-law, Art and Chloe (Walker) Weidner; sisters Rita Campbell and her husband Darold Campbell, Irene Siegenthaler and Patricia Ury; brothers Duane Siegenthaler and Dean Siegenthaler; sisters-in-law, Clara Rose and her husband, Phil Barker; Dorothy Spindler, Florence Siegenthaler; brothers-in-law Dr. Allen Blume; Hershal Weidner and his wife Shirley; Charles Weidner and his wife, Marie; Richard Weidner.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Tribute Wall

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I worked with Mary at Walmart. I have been blessed to have known her. She was a true gem! Her and Harold both one of the best! Darcy

Darcy Dailey – April 29 2024 at 5:21 PM

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So very sorry to hear of your mom passing away Cindy. Will keep you and Glenn and family in my prayers. May she rest in peace.

Bev Vonnahme – April 29 2024 at 6:14 PM

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What a wonderful woman and friend. Had many laughs with this lady. The last time we were together we visited, watched the Young and the Restless, had a lunchmeat lunch with her favorite cherry ice cream to follow. She sent me home with a new car drink container with her favorite flavored water :) So thankful I made the trip and made that beautiful memory. Mary, so happy you and Harold are back together for eternity. Love to all as we celebrate a life well lived!

Cindy Howell – April 29 2024 at 8:57 PM

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I remember visiting your home and Mary making a great meal and the fried chicken was delicious. I will miss her, rest in peace aunt Mary

Renae Blink – April 28 2024 at 6:15 PM

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Mary was a very nice person and a joy to visit with. My sympathy to her family as they mourn her passing.

Deb Hargens – April 30 2024 at 1:22 AM

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