Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Mary Lou (Madigan) Julich peacefully entered into the Lord’s hands at Mercy Hospital in Des Moines at the age of 84, on May 3rd, 2020.

Private Family Funeral Services will be held at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll on Wednesday, May 6, 2020 with Fr. Gary Snyder officiating. When Covid-19 Restrictions are lifted, A Memorial Mass will be held at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Catholic Church with burial in St. Francis of Assisi Cemetery in Maple River.

A Live Stream Broadcast and recording of Mary Lou’s service can be found by visiting the Sharp Funeral Home Carroll, Iowa YouTube Channel at this link: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqd2eeRJk5RTdEJoEooUoAQ. An Icon on that page will be available by 10:55 a.m. on Wednesday.

Those wishing to mail their memorial may direct it to: Mary Lou Julich Family c/o Sharp Funeral Home, 226 W. 8th Street, Carroll, IA 51401.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll, and online condolences may be left for Mary Lou’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

She was born in Carroll on April 13, 1936 to Thomas and Marguerite (Wieland) Madigan. Raised on a farm outside of Carroll, she spent much of her childhood outdoors with her sisters, playing paper dolls and swinging under the shade tree. She was an active member of 4-H and excelled in speech. The oldest of seven children, she enjoyed helping her mother around the house, and with her younger siblings.

Mary Lou married her high school sweetheart, Maurice Julich, at St. Joseph’s Church in Carroll, on June 4, 1955. The happy couple enjoyed dancing and traveling to Christian events. Together they made a home on the Julich farm near Maple River, where they raised their six beloved children: Diane (Michael) Julich Bealka (Inver Grove Heights, MN), Mark Julich (Sioux City), Lori Julich Lawler (Spirit Lake), Kris Julich Leiting (Breda), Kevin Julich (Maple River) and the late Richard (Stacie) Julich (Carroll).

Mary Lou was a female role model, whose external beauty was surpassed only by her internal beauty. She was poised and had a knack for style, just like her mother, the woman she spent her life trying to mirror. She displayed her chic style, bright smile and flawless lipstick on the floors of Sernett Department Store, where she worked until its eventual closing. She was a ribbon-winning seamstress who adorned her children with handmade clothing. Her embroidered pillow cases and hand towels with their fresh from the closet, Vanderbilt-tinged scent, were coveted gifts by bridal couples, friends and family.

While she was admired for her talents and sense of style, what she will be remembered for most is her kind heart and embodiment of a faith-based life. Mary Lou was part of the last graduating class of St Angela’s Academy for Girls (1954) and was a true dedicated Christian woman. Her deep spirituality and relationship with Jesus showed in all aspects of her life. She cherished being a parishioner of St Francis and Our Lady of Mount Carmel churches through Ladies Guild, eucharistic ministry and lectoring. Mary Lou radiated love and had a gift for making those around her feel special. She had a remarkable way of remembering anniversaries and birthdays and loved sending cards. She was a wonderful homemaker and cook. She enjoyed music, reading, keeping up with current events, chatting with her loved ones and reminding others that God is beside us on our daily journeys.

Mary Lou was a loving and devoted grandmother to all 23 of her grandchildren and 22 great grandchildren, whom she so proudly placed throughout her handmade scrapbooks. She blessed them with years of annual Easter egg hunts, birthday cakes for Jesus, and holiday gatherings. Lifelong bonds will remain because of the values she instilled through family traditions. Those values will be passed on for generations to come and her legacy will live on.

Whether one called her wife, mother, grandmother, sister, aunt or friend, her selfless, kind, and forgiving heart shone through to all. She was the true definition of grace.

Mary Lou is survived by her husband Maury, her children, grandchildren and great-children; sisters Dee (late Windy) Winn, of Mount Pleasant, Ruth (Bob) Julich of Georgia, Deb (Mark) Boell of Carroll; brothers Tom (Linda) Madigan of Spirit Lake, Jim (Leslie) of California, Mike (Julie) of Carroll; several in-laws; numerous nieces, nephews and extended family and friends.

She is reunited in Heaven with her son Richard Julich, infant children Scott Julich and Mary Beth Julich, grandson Bryan Julich, and her parents, Thomas & Marguerite Madigan, and many other loved ones.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Beautiful in Blue was purchased for the family of Mary Lou Julich.

Comment #30821745 – May 05 2020 at 11:23 AM

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Dear Maury & Julich Family, I’m saddened in hearing of the loss of Mary Lou. But equally joyful in remembering her deep faith and life in Jesus. To have someone in a family that consistently believes in you and prays for you is a rare thing. Especially in the midst of all of our imperfections as human beings, and even in us as families. As I watched the service today, I was touched by the kind words that were shared by all. I’m sure there are few that would struggle to find something complimentary to say of Mary Lou Julich! It was a beautiful service! I know that today was very difficult for you all, and to add the restrictions that you all had to face in honoring her life only added to that difficulty. To me, it almost seemed like a metaphor of her life…Mary Lou made it through difficult times! Through God’s comfort and peace, I pray that you all will as well. Our thoughts and prayers are with you Maury, Diane, Mark, Lori, Kristi, & Kevin, and all the grandchildren & great grandchildren...as well as all the 'Madigan' siblings...Mom, Tom, Ruth, Jim, Mike & Deb. Love You All, Daniel ‘Danny’ & Kelly Winn

Daniel Winn – May 06 2020 at 3:50 PM

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Mary Lou always made me feel like like I could be the best I could be and what it means to love your family . I will miss her smile and elbow to Maury the most.

Marcus Nagl – May 06 2020 at 8:11 PM

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Maurie and family...My prayer and sympathy are with you all at his time of such great loss. May you ever find comfort and peace at the wonderful memories that I now you have as do we all too. Blessings always...Sister Rita Heires and all our family.

Sister Rita Heires – May 09 2020 at 9:46 PM

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I worked with Mary Lou..she was like a second mom to me..only wish I would have kept in touch. Prayers for your family..she was a beautiful person! Ann Staley Gohr

Ann Gohr – May 11 2020 at 9:58 PM

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