Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Marlys DeVries, age 78, of Carroll died Monday, September 9, 2024 at St. Anthony Nursing Home in Carroll.

A funeral service will be held at 10:30 a.m., Monday, September 16, 2024 at Central Church in Carroll with Pastor Ryan Gallegos officiating. Casket Bearers will be Austin Wiederin, Ryan Kline, Joe Cook, Kurk Shrader, Jody Brincks, and Duane Sloth. Burial will be in the Carroll City Cemetery.

A visitation will be from 4-6 p.m. on Sunday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll. Additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. on Monday at the church.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Marly’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Marlys was born on the daughter of Clifford and Nora (White) Dettman on April 2, 1946 in Stella Nebraska. She graduated from Dawson-Verdon High School in 1965. After graduation she lived in Omaha and met Gary Balk. They were married on May 22, 1971 at Sacred Heart Church in Templeton, Iowa. They moved to Cheyenne, Wyoming where she worked at Blue Cross Blue Shield in claims. To this union they had one daughter Kimberly in 1977.

She enjoyed bowling, sewing, especially cross stitching and crocheting. She loved seeing friends, playing cards and putting picture puzzles together. Marlys collected teddy bears and loved the color purple. In 1988 they moved back to Iowa to be closer to family, later separating in 1996.

Marlys lived in Carroll and worked at SITEL then Walmart where she retired after 15 years as a cashier. She gained many friends along the way. She enjoyed some traveling and mostly attending her grandchildren’s events whether it be a T-ball game or football game she was there cheering them on.
In the last 10 years she had had many health challenges but always faced them with a smile and a get it done attitude. She loved her great-grandchildren and was all smiles when she found out a new one was on the way. She loved making homemade gifts for them cross stitching baby blankets.
Marlys was known for her quirky remarks and joking personality.

Left to celebrate her life is her daughter Kimberly Wiederin (Shawn); her grandchildren: Morgan (Joe) Cook, Nicole Wiederin (Ryan Kline) and Austin Wiederin (Emma Ahrenholtz) all of Manning; her great-grandchildren: Alyssa Wiederin, Colton Wiederin, Olivia, Conner and Macie Cook and Peyton Kline; she is also survived by her brother, Wayne Dettman of Bern KS; her sisters: Millie Buethe of Plattsmouth, NE and Norma Schutte of Lincoln NE, Doris Jean (Wayne) Schafer of Stella, NE and brother Weldon (Sharon) Dettman of Humboldt, NE; her sister-in-law Naomi Dettman of Auburn, NE; as well as any nieces and nephews and friends.

She is preceded in death by her parents, Clifford and Nora Dettman; her sisters Colleen (Charles) Shrader and Eldona Workman; her brothers Don, Loy and Dale Dettman; brothers-in-laws Ron Buethe and Gene Schutte; sister-in-law Lena Dettman; her granddaughter Katelyn Wiederin and great-granddaughter Madilyn Cook.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

To send flowers or a memorial gift to the family of Bernard T. Meiners, please visit our Sympathy Store.

Tribute Wall

icon-quote
Maryls was such a sweet lady. Always had a smile on her face. Rest in peace sweet lady.

Christy Sturm – September 11 2024 at 6:49 PM

icon-quote
Morgan, Nicole, and Austin, I’m sorry to learn of the loss of your grandmother. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Maureen Drees

Maureen Drees – September 11 2024 at 8:44 PM

icon-quote
Sorry for your loss we loved Maryls she had such witt and always made us laugh she always had a great smile,,,, She will be missed prayer to your family. Terri DeVries Martin

Terri Martin – September 12 2024 at 10:09 AM

icon-quote
Sorry for your loss. Marlys was a roommate to my mother in law at St. Anthony's. The two of them had a great relationship- Marlys will be missed a ton. Sending hugs and prayers.

Brenda Freese – September 15 2024 at 8:16 PM

icon-quote
Garden Accent Stone - 'Wherever a beautiful soul...' was purchased for the family of Marlys DeVries.

Comment #50685129 – September 12 2024 at 8:42 PM

Send a Personalized Message: