Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Louise H. Menke, age 84 of Carroll died Friday, September 5, 2008 at Mercy Medical Center in Des Moines. Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 A.M. Tuesday, September 9, 2008 at St. Lawrence Church in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Father Timothy Schott. Lectors will be her daughters, Janet Darveaux, Joan Potthoff, Karen Dentlinger, and Jane Pipich. Gift Bearers will be Grandchildren, John Darveaux, Ryan Potthoff, Jill Roberts, and Adam and Kevin Pipich. Soloist will be a son-in-law, Mike Pipich. Eucharistic Ministers will be her daughters, Karen Dentlinger, Janet Darveaux, and Jane Pipich. Casket Bearers will be Pete Potthoff, Neil Dentlinger, Mike Pipich, John Pollpeter, Ryan Potthoff, and Larry Pollpeter. Honorary Pallbearers will be her brothers and sisters, Ruth Krogmeier, Helen Loving, Vi Menke, Jim Fraune, and Robert Fraune. Burial will be in Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Carroll. Friends may call after 2:30 p.m. Monday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll. There will be a Rosary at 3:00 p.m., and a Christian Wake Service at 7:00 p.m. by the Parish. Louise was born March 6, 1924 at Fort Madison, Iowa, the daughter of Henry J. and Emma (Wiggenjost) Fraune She attended St. Mary’s Catholic School and graduated from Catholic Central High School in Fort Madison in 1942. She worked as a First Aid Nurse at Sheaffer Pen Company in Fort Madison for 5 years. She attended Iowa State University in Ames, Iowa. On September 6, 1947 she married Clarence “Curly” Menke at St. Mary’s Catholic Church in Fort Madison, Iowa. They lived in several cities in Iowa and in Phoenix, Arizona. In 1966, they moved to Carroll. She was a member of St. Lawrence Church, and the St. Lawrence Ladies Guild. She was a realtor, belonging to Carroll Multiple Listings, and the Iowa and National Association of Realtors. She was also a member of the Cleo Club, a Federated Women’s Club, and was on the Board of Carroll Concert Association. For 6 Years in Audubon she was a member of the Garden Club and The Great Books Club. She enjoyed bridge, photography, art, her family, music, and traveling. Survivors include her husband Clarence “Curly” Menke of Carroll; four daughters, Janet Darveaux of Scottsdale, Arizona; Joan Potthoff and her husband Pete of Glendale, Arizona; Karen Dentlinger and her husband Neil of Portland, Oregon; Jane Pipich and her husband Mike of Highlands Ranch, Colorado; five grandchildren, John Darveaux, Ryan Potthoff, Jill Roberts and her husband Brian, Adam and Kevin Pipich; three sisters, Ruth Krogmeier and her husband Ed of Fort Madison, Iowa; Viola Menke of Clear Lake, Iowa; Helen Loving of West Point, Iowa; two brothers, Robert Fraune and his wife Rose of Waterloo, Iowa; James Fraune and his wife Dottie of Revere, Missouri. She was preceded in death by a son Ronald Menke in 1987, her parents, three sisters, including, Alice Fedler, Joan Fraune, and Arlene Walljasper, and one brother, Paul Fraune.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Dear Menke family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you in heartfelt sympathy at this very sad time for you and for all of us. Even though we can't be with you in person, we send prayers and are keeping you in our hearts in these hard days ahead. May special blessings be yours at this time and may perpetual light shine upon our dearly beloved Aunt Louise. Sending love and sympathy, Sue & Larry

Susan Loving & Larry Pilarchik – September 08 2008 at 9:22 AM

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