Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Lorraine Haley (Kelly) Wuebker, 26 year old resident of Auburn, Iowa, passed away on December 15, 2022 at St. Anthony Hospital, Carroll IA, due to an automobile accident.

Funeral services will be held at 6:30 p.m., Wednesday, December 21, 2022 at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll. Visitation will be from 4-6 p.m. on Wednesday prior to the service. Those in attendance are encouraged to wear a sweatshirt hoodie.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Lorraine’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Lorraine Haley (Kelly) Wuebker was born April 16, 1996 in Northfield, Minnesota, the daughter of Carmen (Kelly) and Randy McColley. Upon graduation from Jefferson-Scranton High School she attended Iowa Central Community College for one year in the nursing program. Lorraine was working at Wild Rose Casino, Jefferson IA, as a Cage Supervisor and part of the drop team when she met Nathan Wuebker of Auburn, Iowa in January 2019. Lorraine worked at a Daycare in Rockwell City, Iowa during the beginning of the pandemic. After the pandemic hit she went to work at New Hope Village where she was as a direct support staff in Daisy Lane. June 20, 2020 Lorraine married Nathan in Twin Lakes State Park. Due to Covid, Lorraine and Nathan had a delayed wedding reception April 17, 2021 in Eagle Grove, Iowa. January 22, 2022 Lorraine gave birth to Emmett Dean Wuebker in Omaha, Nebraska at the Women’s hospital.

Lorraine had a sense of humor that would light up a room. Lorraine had a deep passion for the residents of Daisy Lane, animals, Christmas, everything Disney, and her family and friends. Lorraine loved being a wife and her favorite title was mom. Lorraine touched so many people and impacted so many lives. One of her favorite things to do is go to Minnesota to see her family. Lorraine had special bonds with her sisters, cousins, enjoyed spending time with them and reminiscing memories and telling others about them.

Lorraine is survived by her husband, Nathan Wuebker, her son Emmett Wuebker of Auburn, her mother, Carmen, her dad Randy McColley, her sisters Emma, Kaitlyn and brother Kendrick McColley of Albert Lea, MN, her brothers Chris (Liz) McColley of Faribault, MN, Mike (Amanda) McColley of Fairbanks, AK, paternal Grandparents MaryAnn McColley of Onamia, MN, Maternal Grandparents Pat and Don Kelly of Eagle Grove, IA, parents-in-law Donita and Neil Wuebker, Brother-in-laws Justin (Dani), and Nick Wuebker of Rockwell City IA, and many loved ones.

Lorraine is preceded in death by her grandfather, Dennis McColley, uncle Kyle Kelly, and aunt Theresa Schmitz.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Nathan, Emmett and all of Lorraine's family. My sincere sympathy. Mike will certainly miss her at Daisy Lane. Valerie

Valerie Ogren – December 23 2022 at 1:37 AM

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Lit a candle in memory of Lorraine Haley Wuebker

Kathy Duggins – December 18 2022 at 8:44 AM

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Lit a candle in memory of Lorraine Haley Wuebker

Joan Pearson – December 18 2022 at 2:00 PM

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Nathan, Emmitt and to all of Lorraine's family, I am deeply sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers to all of you. I'm so sorry.

Lynn McGuire – December 18 2022 at 5:49 PM

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Beautiful in Blue was purchased for the family of Lorraine Haley Wuebker.

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