Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Lila Potthoff, 90 of Halbur, died, Saturday, June 19, 2021 at St. Anthony Regional Hospital in Carroll.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be Celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, June 25, 2021 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. The Celebrant will be Fr. Shinoj Jose. Music will be by Julie Sibbel and the St. Augustine Choir. Mass Servers will be Owen Nepple and Grant Nepple. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Phil Markway. Gift Bearers and Honorary Casket Bearers will be Lila’s granddaughters: Heather Ryan, Shannon Lewis, Larron Potthoff, Jennifer Drees, Mandi Denner, Tamie Drees, Stephanie Hospelhorn, Rachael Falke, and Madison Ware. Casket Bearers will be Lila’s grandsons: Jay Ryan, Travis Drees, Justin Drees, Christopher Potthoff, Adam Potthoff, Aaron Falke, Josh Potthoff, and Jonah Potthoff. Burial will be in St. Augustine Cemetery in Halbur.

Friends may call at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll after 5 p.m. on Thursday where there will be a rosary at 7 p.m.

Additional visitation will be held from 9:30 – 10:15 a.m. on Friday morning at the church.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Lila’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Born on February 11, 1931 at Carroll, Iowa, Lila was the daughter of Percy and Elvera (Kaus) Davis. She spent her younger years in Carroll and graduated from Carroll High School. On October 16, 1951, Lila was united in marriage to Merle Potthoff at Sts. Peter and Paul Catholic Church in Carroll. Following their marriage, the couple made their home northeast of Halbur. Lila was a devoted homemaker, housewife and assisted her husband with their farming operation.

She enjoyed life on the farm, gardening, playing cards, baking, writing poems, vacationing, and hosting various family gatherings. Lila was a member of St. Augustine Parish and Parish Ladies Guild.

Left to celebrate Lila’s life are her 7 children: Sharon Ryan of Perry, Nancy (Patrick) Monjarez of Omaha, Michael Potthoff of Panora, Joan (Randy) Drees of Carroll, John (Gail) Potthoff of Halbur, Brenda (Jim) Falke of Omaha, and Mark (Jane) Potthoff of Polk City; 17 grandchildren 25 great-grandchildren; her sisters-in-law: Arlene Rupiper of Carroll, Lois Hinners of Carroll, Joyce Wright of Carroll and Betty Potthoff of Manning; brother-in-law: Danny Rowedder of Carroll; as well as many nieces, nephews, and other extended relatives.

Lila was preceded in death by her parents; her husband Merle in 2019; her sisters: Evelyn Wiederien and Lois Lambertz; her brother Harold Davis; and a brother in infancy, Donald Davis.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Tribute Wall

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So many fun memories being at the farm. Riding midnight is one I remember. She was so tall so we had to stand on the fence or other tall object to get on. Aunt Lila will be missed.

Barb Smith – June 20 2021 at 3:34 PM

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At the many Potthoff family gatherings, there was always amazing food...and lots of it! The thing I looked the most forward to every time was Lila's famous Peter Pan salad. Always had to get in line early enough to get a big piece! Can't count the times we would laugh while talking about how much I loved her Peter Pan salad...it will always be a very fond memory of Lila.

Jeanne Samame – June 21 2021 at 10:58 PM

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I did not know Lila personally, but I love Nancy more than words can say and I know how much her dear mother meant to her. My prayers and thoughts are with your beautiful family during this difficult time. Nancy, hugs and love to you, my dear friend. Tracy McHugh

TRACY MCHUGH – June 23 2021 at 3:17 PM

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Mark Potthoff and family. I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Please know you are not alone in this and that thoughts and prayers are being sent your way.

Lisa Rusk – June 23 2021 at 4:20 PM

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Thoughts and prayers to the family

sandy pudenz – June 21 2021 at 11:36 AM

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