Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Leo Steffen, 87 of Carroll, died Tuesday, October 18, 2016 at his home in Carroll.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10 a.m. Saturday, October 22, 2016 at St. Lawrence Catholic Church in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Fr. Craig Collison, assisted by Deacon Scott Steffen. Music will be by Marcy Anderson and Katie Sparks. Lector for the funeral mass will be Brad Steffen. Gift Bearers will be: Abbey Rock, Ann Steffen, Sarah Steffen, and Karissa White. Casket Bearers will be: Thomas Steffen, Brad Steffen, Mark Steffen, Tyler White, Eric White, Mitchell Sparks, and Kirby Rock. Burial will be in Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Carroll with military honors conducted by the Carroll American Legion.

Friends may call at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll after 4 p.m. on Friday where there will be a rosary at 5 p.m. by the Carroll Knights of Columbus and a Christian Wake Service at 6:30 p.m.
The casket will be moved to St. Lawrence Church on Saturday morning where visitation will begin at 9 a.m. and continue until time of the funeral mass.

Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Leo’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Leo was born on July 2, 1929 in Kingsley, Iowa, the son of Bernard and Corsini (Murray) Steffen. At the age of 2, the family moved to Spencer, IA. Leo graduated from Spencer High School in 1948 before attending college earning his BA in education from Wayne State College and his MS in education from Iowa State. Leo married Phyllis Drees on October 15, 1960 at St. Lawrence Church in Carroll and celebrated 56 years of marriage. To this union were four children: Trent, Scott, Raynee, and Janelle.

After teaching in Larrabee, Graettinger, and Onawa he taught Industrial Arts and Driver’s Ed at Carroll High School for 26 of his 32 years while assisting and coaching football, track, and cross country at CHS. Before teaching, Leo was in the Navy, serving from 1951-1954 during the Korean War. He was stationed at Kodiak Naval Air Station, Miramar Air Base, and Washington, D.C. as a photographer during his service years along with the VJ-61 Squadron.

In his free time, when not attending children and grandchildren’s activities, Leo enjoyed golf, fishing, watching football (especially the Hawkeyes), camping and family vacations, woodworking, coaching, coffee with the “men”, and practical jokes. He also enjoyed the perfect split of being ½ German and ½ Irish. He was extremely proud of being part of the American Legion and a member of the Legion’s Color Guard. He was also a member of the Knights of Columbus, NEA/ISEA, Iowa Driver Education Association, and St. Lawrence Church in Carroll. He was proud of being a published writer in the School Shop Magazine.

Leo is survived by his wife, Phyllis Steffen of Carroll; four children: Trent (Nancy) Steffen of North Carolina, Deacon Scott (Kathy) Steffen of Boone, Raynee (Tony) Sparks of Johnston, Janelle (Jack) White of Michigan; 14 grandchildren: Brooke, Gavin, and Christian Steffen, Brittany (Trey) Walker; Tom (Kelsey), Brad (Clare), Ann, Sarah, and Mark Steffen; Abbey (Kirby)Rock and Mitchell (Katie) Sparks; Tyler, Karissa, and Eric White. He also has two great-grandchildren: Peter Steffen and Jackson Rock. Other survivors include his brother, Kenneth Steffen of Ottumwa, his sister Dottie McEntee of Spencer; his sisters-in-law and brothers-in-law: Diane (Ron) Venteicher of Carroll, Lloyd (Mercedes) Drees of Carroll and Bernice Drees of Mapleton; as well as many nieces, nephews, other extended relatives and many friends.

Leo was preceded in death by his parents Bernard and Corsini Steffen; father and mother-in-law, Richard and Leona Drees, brothers Verlin (Bud) and Wyman Steffen.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Tribute Wall

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Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family Phyllis during this difficult time. Love from the Jim Boyd family

Jim Boyd – October 19 2016 at 11:35 AM

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Our deepest of sympathy at this time. Please know you are all in our thoughts and prayers. Dennis Lappe, Kristy and family.

kristy lappe – October 19 2016 at 7:55 PM

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My thoughts and prayers go to the entire family. Leo will be missed by everyone who knew him.

Erika Uhlenkamp – October 19 2016 at 10:42 PM

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My earliest memories of Leo, continued throughout. I was dropped off for mom and dad's annual vacation without seven kids, this year at the Caroll cousins. The first thing I heard from Leo was that I was going to be one of his kids for a week. And I was. When he found me crying because I was so homesick (yep, I was that kis) he let me know I was needed. I was kept so busy, and I am pretty sure that my "little" cousins really didn't need me to help them do every little thing, but boy, did I feel needed. He was right up there with my dad in the kindness category, and that is the highest of praises. Rest in peace Leo.

terry steffen sparks – October 20 2016 at 6:43 AM

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My heartfelt condolences to the Steffen family. The bible makes this comforting promise,"God is close to the brokenhearted;He saves those who are crushed in spirit."(Psalms 34:18)

Diane – October 20 2016 at 6:16 PM

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