Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Lawrence Steffes, age 89, of Carroll, died Friday, November 17, 2017, at St. Anthony Nursing Home in Carroll.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m. Wednesday, November 22, 2017 at St. Lawrence Catholic Church in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Fr. Brian Feller. Con-Celebrant will be Fr. Timothy Schott. Music will be by Kate Cuddy, Kathleen Macke and the St. Lawrence Choir. Mass Servers will be: Vanessa Foley, Brooklyn Foley, and Tristen Foley. Lectors for the funeral mass will be: Diane Hannasch and Donna Bachman. Gift Bearers will be: Kennedey Reiling, Caleb Reiling, Makayla Britcher, Emma Britcher, and Cecilia Bowers. Eucharistic Ministers will be: Larry Reiling, Vicki Reiling, and Kelly Foley. Honorary Casket Bearers will be: Michele Rudisill, Danielle Dehne, Amanda Dehne, Jessica Bowers, Alycia Marsh, and Dawn Ketchum. Casket Bearers will be: Denny Steffes, Joseph Reiling, Nicholas Reiling, Austin Steffes, Zachary Ahrens, and Joshua Ahrens. Burial will be in Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Carroll.

Friends may call at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll after 4 p.m. on Tuesday where there will be a rosary at 5 p.m. and a Christian Wake Service at 6:30 p.m.

The casket will be moved to St. Lawrence Church on Wednesday morning where visitation will resume at 9:30 a.m. and will continue until time of the funeral mass.

Memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for St. Anthony Memory Care Unit.
Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Lawrence’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Lawrence Henry Steffes was born on January 14, 1928 near Roselle, Iowa. He was the son of Joseph and Josephine (Haberl) Steffes. Lawrence spent his younger years in the Roselle area and attended Holy Angels School.

On January 22, 1952, Lawrence was united in marriage to Darlene Irlbeck at St. John’s Catholic Church in Arcadia. The couple lived near Roselle, Mt. Carmel and later moved to Carroll in 1960.

Lawrence was a farmer, gravel hauler, worked for Highway Surfacers, and also worked at Farmland Foods in Denison for over 30 years & he never missed a day. He enjoyed fishing, riding motorcycles, horses, baseball, playing cards, country music, and had a passion for doing yardwork. He thoroughly enjoyed taking his grandchildren for drives around Swan Lake. His greatest joy was spending time with his wife “Leaner” and his entire family. Lawrence was a member of St. Lawrence Church in Carroll.

Steffy is survived by his children: Pamela Dehne and her husband Ernst Jr. of Ames, Vicki Reiling and her husband Larry of Carroll, Shelley Ahrens and her husband Dominic of Carroll, and Denny Steffes and his wife Lisa of Manning; 11 grandchildren; 15 great-grandchildren; his sisters: Florence Kokenge of Carroll, Bernice Irlmeier of Templeton, and Coletta (Leo) Wernimont of Fonda; his sisters-in-law: Dixie Steffes of New Hampton, Mary Irlbeck of Carroll, and Cindy Irlbeck of Carroll; his brothers-in-law: Virgil (Roe) Irlbeck of Maple River, and Kenneth Foley of Carroll; as well as many nieces, nephews, other extended relatives and many friends.

Steffy was preceded in death by his parents, Joseph and Josephine Steffes; his wife of 52 years, Darlene; his parents-in-law, Leo and Marie (Soyer) Irlbeck; his brother, Norbert Steffes; his sisters: Hilda Schroeder, Lucille (Bay) Galloway, Irene (Leo) Ertz, Elizabeth (Florian) Wittrock; his brothers-in-law: Lawrence Kokenge, Herb Irlmeier, Al Irlbeck, Vince Irlbeck, Denny Irlbeck, and Leon Irlbeck; and his sisters-in-law: Rosemary (Francis) Roth, Virgine Irlbeck, and Marilyn “Tots” Foley.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Tribute Wall

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Family of Lawrence Steffes - May Gods love & the love of family & friends comfort all of you . May you find peace knowing Lawrence is safely home & in the loving arms of our Heavenly Father . May he rest in peace . Marilyn (Hinners) Jeschke

marilyn(hinners) jeschke – November 19 2017 at 9:07 AM

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We are sorry for your loss. Our prayers are being said to help you thru this difficult time. God Bless Steffes family

Bill and Pat Stammerman (Pat Wittrock) – November 19 2017 at 1:10 PM

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Vicky and Larry, So sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you. Zach and Diane

Diane Campbell – November 21 2017 at 3:11 PM

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I used to live down the street from Steffy. I remember riding my bike past his house and he'd always have a wave and a smile for me. I stopped by occasionally as he worked outside, tinkered with his motorcycle, etc. He was a very kind man.

Nick Brincks – November 22 2017 at 7:04 AM

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He was a wonderful, fun-loving uncle. He was always laughing and happy. I remember the Steffes siblings getting together and playing cards, laughing and having a great time together. Wonderful memories growing up! June Irlmeier Neppl.

June Irlmeier – November 22 2017 at 11:17 AM

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