Lawrence F. “Waspy” Handlos

10/14/1936 –
09/07/2023

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Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Lawrence F. “Waspy” Handlos, age 86, of Audubon, died Thursday, September 7, 2023 at the Friendship Home in Audubon.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m. Tuesday, September 12, 2023, at St. Mary’s Catholic Church in Willey. The celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Mary’s Choir. Gift Bearers will be Brian Handlos, Beth Handlos Wahlert, Kurt Handlos, and Cory Handlos. Lector will be Daryl Quandt. Eucharistic Minister will be Jan Handlos. Honorary Casket Bearers will be Gary Handlos, Dan Handlos, Gary Wegner, Alan Smalley, Steve May, Larry Nielsen, Paul Madsen, Dave Madsen, Lyle Hansen, and Dave Robinson. Casket Bearers will be Jacob Best, Tim Wahlert, Skyler Handlos, Chris Schultes, Keith Schultes, and Mike Anthofer. Burial will be at 1:15 p.m. Tuesday in Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Carroll with military honors conducted by the Carroll American Legion.

Visitation will be held from 4-7 p.m. Monday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll. A Rosary will be prayed at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to the St. Mary’s Parish Hall on Tuesday morning where visitation will resume from 9:30-10:15 a.m. Memorials may be directed to the Audubon Friendship Home.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Waspy’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Lawrence “Waspy”, the son of John and Rosina (Mayer) Handlos was born on October 14, 1936, in Carroll County, Iowa. He grew up near Willey and attended elementary school at St. Mary’s and high school in Glidden. After his education he worked on the family farm at Willey. From 1957-1959 he enlisted in the United States Army serving most of his time at Ft. Bliss, Texas. During enlistment, Lawrence was awarded the Rifleman Marksman Badge which he was very proud of. Upon his honorable discharge he returned to the area where he continued to assist on the family farm and work at Quandt Auto Salvage.

On September 9, 1961, Lawrence was united in marriage to Doris Quandt at St. Mary’s Catholic Church in Willey. The loving couple would have been married 62 years. Lawrence and Doris made their home in Carroll, and purchased Handlos Tavern. In June of 1966 the couple moved to Audubon County and began Handlos Family Farms where they were engaged in grain and livestock farming. Later, Lawrence enjoyed farming with his sons, grandsons, and great-nephew. In addition to farming Waspy was active with the Audubon County Pork Producers, and other business endeavors. In 2017, Lawrence & Doris developed Waspy’s Truck Stop in Templeton and one year later they opened Waspy’s Truck Stop on the 16 acre complex in Audubon (which also includes The Feed Mill Restaurant, Blue Grass Inn & Suites, Waspy’s Tire & Service Center, Waspy’s Truck Wash, Audubon Diesel and Waspy’s Two Palms Grilling and Catering).

Lawrence enjoyed spending time with his wife, Doris, children, and grandchildren and they enjoyed their winters at their condo in Ft. Myers Beach, Florida. He also enjoyed bowling, golfing, playing cards with friends, driving around in his pick-up through town or checking out crops. Lawrence also enjoyed time in one of his John Deere tractors whenever he got the chance. Lawrence loved anything Doris cooked, especially Doris’ German bread dumplings & gravy and her liver dumplings (both a family favorite).

Lawrence is survived by his wife Doris of Audubon; children: Brian (Patricia) Handlos of Audubon, Beth (Tim) Handlos Wahlert of Audubon, Kurt Handlos of Des Moines, Cory (Missy) Handlos of Carroll; seven grandchildren, three great-grandchildren; his sisters-in-law and brothers-in-law: Jolene Handlos of Carroll, Doreen (Michael) Bremmer of Oregon, Diane (Gene) Heithoff of Carroll, David (Debera) Quandt of Carroll, and Daryl (Kris) Quandt of Willey, as well as many nieces, nephews, and other extended relatives and friends.

Lawrence was preceded in death by his parents; daughter Kim Marie Handlos in 2010; siblings: Jack Handlos, Joe (Mary Ann) Handlos, Paul Handlos, Rose (Bill) Schultes, Florence Onken; parents-in-law: Harold and Pearl Quandt, and a brother-in-law: Dwain Quandt.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Cory - remember your special to us & Our thoughts & prayers are with you all. May he rest in peace. Doug & Cheryl King

Doug & Cheryl King – September 09 2023 at 10:09 AM

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