Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Kay Frances Thelen, age 87, of Templeton, died Sunday, January 4, 2026, Accura Healthcare in Lake City.

A Private Family Burial will be held at a later date in Sacred Heart Cemetery in Templeton.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll, and online condolences may be left for Kay’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Kay Frances, daughter of Wilbur and Ella (Jentzen) Fuchs, was born August 5, 1939, in Halbur, Iowa. She grew up near Halbur and northeast of Maple River, graduating from Carroll High School.
On February 15, 1958, Kay was united in marriage with Sylvester Thelen at St. Francis Church in Maple River by the Rev. P.M. Mattes. Two sons were born to this couple. Kay and Sylvester made their home in the Templeton area for their entire life.

Kay helped Sylvester with his livestock feed business as well as feeding livestock. Kay was a member of Sacred Heart Church in Templeton and the Guild. She enjoyed tending to her flower garden, being outdoors, cooking, baking, reading, solving crossword puzzles, and spending time with friends.

Kay is survived by two sons: Michael Sylvester of Rochester, MN, and Cletus John Thelen of Templeton; and by several in-laws: Cecelia Thelen of Carroll; Mary Ann Ludwig of Carroll; Lynette Schaffer of Omaha; Virginia Thelen of Anita; Ralph Thelen of Davenport; and by several cousins, and nieces and nephews.

Kay was preceded in death by her parents, husband Sylvester, and the following in-laws: Michael Schaffer, Florence Thelen, Gerald Thelen, Eugene Thelen, Norman and Marlene Thelen, Norbert Thelen, Lawrence Thelen, Linda and John Hoffmann; Marcile and Alfred Hoffman; Donna Thelen, Allan Ludwig, and Dorothy, Victor, and Melvin Thelen in infancy.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Kay was a great cousin (almost like a sister) to our Mom, Darlene Kruse Anderson. She was fun, kind, and smart in many ways. She and Mom were close for a long time. She will be missed, but I'm sure she and our Mom are having a ball in heaven being together again. Darlene Kruse Anderson's family - Bruce and Judy Anderson, Brian Anderson, Nancy Anderson Bowers and Tom Bowers, Ellen Anderson Petty and Kevin Petty, and Cindy Anderson Williams and Jonathan Williams.

Nancy Bowers – January 11 2026 at 1:21 PM

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Kay was my first cousin who always stayed in touch with my parents living in Carroll County Iowa. I remember when we attended her wedding to Syl in Maple River when I was only 6 years old. I moved to the Western U.S.A. in 1974. Kay continued to visit my parents regularly at the Manning Regional Healthcare Center until their passing in 2006 and 2008. Kay was very caring.

William Jentzen – January 12 2026 at 8:35 PM

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Lit a candle in memory of Kay Thelen

William Jentzen – January 12 2026 at 8:16 PM

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Kay was my first cousin also! My Mom, Kay’s son Cletus, and myself would often go to Pizza Ranch for lunch! That was one of Kay’s favorite places to dine! She was a very kind and caring person! She would check on my Mom also! I will miss Kay! Kind and caring was words that described her!

Jeanne Jentzen – January 13 2026 at 3:48 PM

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