Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

John Heider, age 100, lifelong resident of Carroll, Iowa, died Friday, December 30, 2022, at Friendship Manor Nursing Home in Shakopee, Minnesota.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 11 AM, Friday January 13th, 2023 at St. Lawrence Church – St. John Paul II Parish in Carroll. The celebrant with be Fr. Timothy Schott. The burial will be at Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Carroll.

A visitation with be held from 10:00 AM to 10:45 AM Friday, January 13, 2022 at St Lawrence Church prior to the funeral mass.

In lieu of flowers memorials may be directed to Kuemper Catholic Schools Foundation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll, and online condolences may be left for John’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

John was born on July 21,1922 in Carroll, Iowa. He was the youngest of eight children born to Henry and Frances (Schlichte) Heider. He graduated from Carroll High School in 1939. He attended Creighton University in Omaha, Nebraska, graduating Cum Laude in 1943. He was employed for a short time in St. Paul, Minnesota. He returned to Carroll to join his father and family members in operating Heider Manufacturing Company. He continued there until the business was sold in 1983.

John was an avid golfer starting at the age of 8 when he would ride his bike to the Carroll Country Club. He continued to play into his 90’s. His passion for playing was for the tradition and challenge of the game. John was known as a true gentleman on and off the course.

He believed in the value of education. He instilled this value in his family and was very proud of them and their accomplishments.

John and Mary Duncan were married on June 6th, 1945, at St. Joseph Church in Carroll, Iowa. They were married for 64 years and had nine children.

John is survived by his children, Mary Gerken and her husband John of Shakopee, Minnesota, Sue Heider, wife of John Jr.(deceased) of Charlotte, North Carolina, Susan Prendergast and her husband Tom of Rochester Minnesota, Thomas Heider and his wife Helen of Madison, Alabama, Barbara Danielson and her husband Mark of Richardson, Texas, Stephen Heider and his wife Michelle of North Barrington, Illinois, Patrick Heider and his wife Susan of Ballwin, Missouri, Nancy Feste and her husband Scott of Naperville, Illinois, twenty-three grandchildren; twenty–three great-grandchildren, brother- in -law Donald Happe of Sioux City, Iowa, many nieces and nephews.

A special thank you to Brian (nephew) and Diana Fitzpatrick for their support.
He was preceded in death by wife Mary, his sons Michael and John Jr., his parents, and siblings.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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So very sorry for your loss! I remember John friend m many years ago as a child growing up across the street from the Heider building and running around playing in the sawdust shed and the ladders by Bell Transfer. My dad was Lawrence Lampe. He too has passed now. Some great people they all were! I still own some and of the Heider memorabilia and cherish it. Pat (Lampe) Staples

Pat (Lampe)Staples – January 08 2023 at 4:22 PM

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Offering my condolences to the family of John Heider. John was one of the first people to welcome me when I joined the Country Club, treating me as a friend from the start. He had a swing that would envy most and I always enjoyed his company. I will also miss seeing him at Sunday mass when he would always seek me out with a nod & a smile. He was a wonderful person!

Mick Ahrens – January 10 2023 at 11:37 AM

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I'm Greg Johnson, a year younger than Steve. My Father- Gib- and John played golf when they were in their 60s--80s at least 4 days a week. They'd play a round in 2.5 hours (of course during the week when everyone else was working). I was fortunate enough that when I'd come back to Carroll, I got to play many, many rounds with John and Dad. John had the sweetest swing, and one of the nicest men I've ever met in my life. When Dad passed, John donated money to Kuemper in his honor. The epitome of class. Well done John!!! You're the best.

Greg Johnson – January 11 2023 at 8:54 PM

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Enduring Grace was purchased for the family of John Heider.

Comment #40483967 – January 04 2023 at 12:36 PM

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Simply Elegant Spathiphyllum was purchased for the family of John Heider.

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