Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Joe Vanderheiden, age 71, of Carroll, died Thursday, February 19, 2015 in Gann Valley, South Dakota.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10 a.m. Saturday, February 28, 2015 at St. Lawrence Catholic Church in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Fr. Timothy Schott. Music will by Kate Cuddy and the St. Lawrence Choir with Cindy Loneman, and Steve and Marcy Anderson as cantors. Lector will be Mike Foley. Eucharistic Ministers will be Mike Foley, and Mary Anne Lahr. Gift Bearers will be Jean Conway, B-B Rhody, and Lynn Poppens. Casket bearers will be James Vanderheiden Jr., Curtis Vanderheiden, Devin Vanderheiden, Dezeray Vanderheiden, Tia Pawlowski, Kimberly Millard, Gabrielle Jimenez, Teanna Pawlowski, Ashley Millard, Kyra Jimenez, Taya Pawlowski, and Caleb Vanderheiden. Burial will be at Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Carroll. The Carroll Emergency Medical Services will form an honor guard for the funeral mass.

Friends may call at St. Lawrence Catholic Church in Carroll after 3 p.m. Friday, where there will be a Christian Wake Service at 6 p.m.

The casket will be moved to St. Lawrence Church at 9 a.m. Saturday where visitation will resume until the time of the funeral mass.

In lieu of flowers memorials may be left at the church to be directed to the Catholic Charities or the Family Resource Center.

Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll, and online condolences may be left for Joe’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Joe was born on October 30, 1943 in Pontiac, Michigan the son of Ray and Leonella (Hinners) Vanderheiden. The family moved back to Carroll when Joe was two where he lived the rest of his life except for eight months when they lived in New Hampton, Iowa. Joe graduated from Kuemper Catholic High School in 1961, and later attended photography school in Missouri. Joe was united in marriage to Catherine Snyder on June 15, 1963 at St. Lawrence Catholic Church in Carroll, with Cathe’s uncle Fr. Ray Snyder officiating.

Over the years Joe held many jobs, since 1960 he worked as a photographer, Carroll County for 33 years, Culligan for two years, Bob’s Sport Center for four years, and taught CPR and First Aid all over the state during his life. Joe was the first person inducted into the Iowa E.M.S. Association Hall of Fame in 1996. One of Joe’s most prevalent jobs was being one of Santa’s faithful helpers since 1968.

Joe was active in the community. He was a Boy Scout troop leader, helped coached Little League, and along with his wife Cathe he was an assistant Girl Scout Leader. Joe enjoyed life to the fullest. Joe and Cathe received the Humanitarian Award in 1994. Joe was a member of St. Lawrence Parish in Carroll and the Carroll Knights of Columbus.

Left to celebrate Joe’s life are his wife: Cathe Vanderheiden of Carroll; his children: Jan (Ramiro) Jimenez of Mahopac, NY, Dan (Monica) Vanderheiden of Carroll, James (Mary Ann) Vanderheiden of Omaha, NE, and Christine (Tina and Lee) Pawlowski of Gann Valley, SD; he is also survived by Joe (Mary) Millard, B-B (Doug) Rhody, Jean (Tom) Conway, and Lynn (Gordy) Poppens, and many more foster children; many grandchildren; one great-grandchild, Nathaniel.

Joe was preceded in death by his parents, twin boys in infancy, and six siblings.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Cathe & Family, The angels came to earth and took our Santa away, is truly a sad moment. I remember one time when my little sister had a bicycle accident and Joe was one of the EMS guys. When I saw him, I knew everything was going to be ok. He had this aura about him that gave peace and calm to everyone. He has touched my life in many ways and I will truly miss him. God Bless you and your Family.

Jill Tiefenthaler – February 26 2015 at 5:56 AM

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Lit a candle in memory of Joe Vanderheiden

Jea – February 22 2015 at 9:33 PM

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Cathe, and family, I am so sorry for your loss, I have so many memories of Joe and of course you also Cathe when I came over to babysit the kids and you made me feel like one of the family. He will truly be missed by everyone that knew him he was a very special guy whether he was playing Santa, or taking photos or being a emt or just being a husband, friend, dad, grandpa or just being joe. He was one of a kind..Your family will be in my prayers.

Jean M Reiff – February 22 2015 at 9:39 PM

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Cathe, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. You and Joe have been so supportive of so many, now it is your turn to be " cared for " The best memories I will have of Joe is the joy he brought to so many being Santa. To see the residents ot the nursing home smile when Santa came in and visited with them was priceless. Just know you are not alone, there are many caring thoughts coming your way. Love ya girl

kathi peters – February 23 2015 at 6:02 AM

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I remember living at New Hope, asking "mom Cathe" if Santa could come to my cottage every Christmas, he did! Cathe & Joe always would spoil me by taking me home for the day here and their! Many more memories, I can't remember all of them!!!!! Love to you all!!!!!! Meri Van Ahn

Meri Van Ahn – February 23 2015 at 12:07 PM

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