Joanne “Pinkee” Lauridsen

09/27/1964 –
10/21/2022

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Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Joanne “Pinkee” Chain Lauridsen passed away on October 21, at the age of 58 after a multi-year battle with Alzheimer’s disease.
Born September 27th, 1964 in Perry, Iowa, Pinkee was the youngest of Walter ‘E’ and Frances Lauridsen’s four children. Shortly after birth, she was diagnosed with Down syndrome and given a life expectancy of 10 years, which was typical for a Downs child at that time. Her parents resolved to raise her no differently than their other three children, however, and worked tirelessly to see that she received the best education possible. “Education is the one thing they can never take away from you” was her father’s lifelong motto.
She traveled with her parents to San Diego, where she graduated in 1983 from Claremont High School. She defied expectations not only in life expectancy, but also in academic prowess, and graduated 94th out of a class of 656. Claremont was not a special needs school, and Pinkee received a full diploma. She spent many semesters on the honor roll, and her nieces and nephews found it challenging at times to go toe to toe with her in a recitation of the multiplication tables.
During the summertime, Pinkee returned to Okoboji, Iowa with her parents, and spent her early years working at the Echo Plus in Spirit Lake. Just as her parents did not lower the bar for her education, they also expected her to contribute to society. During the balance of the year in San Diego, she worked as a Sharp Hospital volunteer, and logged 15,000 hours of work over three decades. She spent the majority of her time in the Thrift Korral at Sharp Grossmont Hospital, where she costumed as Mrs. Claus during the Holiday Boutique, and donned various other costumes when visiting hospital rooms to distribute toiletries.
A regular patron of the Okoboji Summer Theatre (OST), Pinkee attended over 300 performances and could be found nightly in the third row of any musical. She received her own star on the OST Walk of Fame, and loved meeting with the many gifted students who received the annual Pinkee Lauridsen Spotlight Scholarship. She also enjoyed many wonderful performances at the nearby Lauridsen Performing Arts Theater, and was fond of the raku pottery classes offered by the Pearson Lakes Art Center. In San Diego, she presented the annual Pinkee Lauridsen Educational Scholarships to the highest achieving high school seniors in the Sharp Experience program to assist them with their pursuit of a medical career. The humor and charm she employed in her award speeches never failed to bring the entire auditorium of the Sharp Auxiliary to a standing ovation.
The great love of Pinkee’s life was her schnauzer Max, who she walked daily on the beaches of San Diego. She also enjoyed playing the piano, and performed annually at both the Point Loma Library and Noah Homes, where she resided for the last decade of her life. Pinkee worked through the attendant anxiety of recitals because she loved the applause she received at the end, and the ham in her was on full display as she toyed with the audience while entering and exiting the stage. Her most recent piano piece was Johann Sebastian Bach’s “Harpsichord Concerto in D Minor”. Pinkee was an avid crafter, with a particular fondness for latch hook, and enjoyed reading, word searches, swimming and cooking eggplant parmigiana. She did not, however, like to pull weeds.
All who knew her were blessed.
At the family’s request the services will be private. Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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I am incredibly grateful to have been given the opportunity to know Pinkee during my summer's in Okoboji. There is no one on this planet with a bigger heart, an even bigger smile, and beautiful personality than Pink's. She was truly an angel here on Earth and will be so greatly missed by her family, friends and those lucky enough to have been in her presence. I guarantee she is hosting an arts and crafts session up in Heaven, in between her piano concerts for all the other angels. Rest in Peace sweet girl. You are so loved and will be so missed. Until we meet again....

Kirstin Racicot – October 26 2022 at 8:56 PM

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