Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Joan Schapman, age 82 of Carroll, died Thursday, July 5, 2012, at Iowa Methodist Medical Center in Des Moines, Iowa.
Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10 A.M. Tuesday at St. Lawrence Catholic Church in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Father Timothy Schott. Con-celebrant will be Father Timothy Johnson. The St. Anthony Hospital Auxiliary will form an honor guard for the funeral mass. Lectors will be Joan’s son-in-law, James Van Dyke and grandson, Tony Van Dyke. Gift Bearers will be her nieces, Joleen Thielen, Jean Gibson, and Mary White. Music will be by pianist Marcy Anderson, soloist Jake Gute, violinist Becky Windschitl, and the St. Lawrence Choir. Communion Ministers will be Sherry Henrich and Jim Stork. Casket Bearers will be grandsons, Tony Van Dyke, R.J. Van Dyke, Thomas Van Dyke, and Paul Schapman, and nephews, John Bernholtz and Dave Schapman. Burial will be at Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Carroll.
Friends may call at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll after 3:30 P.M. Monday. A rosary will be prayed at 4 P.M. Monday followed by a Christian wake service at 7 P.M. Monday by St. Lawrence Parish. Visitation will resume at 8:30 A.M. Tuesday at St. Lawrence Church until the time of the funeral mass. Memorials may be left at the funeral home or church for the St. Anthony Hospital Pastoral Care Endowment Fund. Online condolences may be left for Joan’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.
Joan was born on September 30, 1929, at Carroll, Iowa, the daughter of Anton and Kathryn (Hunstock) Maystadt. She spent her lifetime in the Carroll community and attended St. Joseph School and St. Lawrence School and graduated from Carroll High School with the class of 1949. Joan and Paul Schapman were united in marriage on September 26, 1950, at St. Joseph Church in Carroll. The couple made their home in Mt. Carmel until 1958 when they moved to Carroll. Joan was a devoted wife and mother and was also employed as a dietary aid at the Carroll Health Center Nursing Home until her retirement in 1997. She was a member of St. Lawrence Parish, Parish Ladies Guild, Parish Funeral Committee, and the St. Anthony Hospital Auxiliary. Joan enjoyed her family, attending all of her grandchildren’s activities, and was lovingly referred to as GiGi to her great granddaughter Emma. She also enjoyed reading, word puzzles, jig saw puzzles, playing bingo, and traveling.
Joan is survived by her son, Alan Schapman of Carroll; her daughters, Susan Van Dyke and her husband James of Carroll and Kate Searl and her husband Dick of Carroll; her grandchildren, Tony Van Dyke of North Liberty, R.J. Van Dyke and his wife Tessa and their daughter Emma of Sully, Thomas Van Dyke of Carroll, Rachel Klipstein and her husband Adam of Portland, Oregon, and Paul A. Schapman of Denver, Colorado; by a step grandson, Kent Searl and his partner David Boisclair of Minneapolis, Minnesota; and by many nieces and nephews.
She was preceded in death by her parents; her husband, Paul Schapman, in May 1998; a son, Michael Schapman, in December 2011; two sisters, Lillian Bernholtz and Dorothy Schleisman; and by two brothers, Robert Maystadt and Kenneth Maystadt, in infancy.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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I have such good memories of your mother and family. So sorry for your loss. God Bless Kathy Heffernan

Kathy Heffernan – July 10 2012 at 8:57 AM

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To all the Schapman family - our hearts go out to you. Even tho we can't be there, we are with all of you in your hearts. Your mom was a wonderful lady! She will be missed. Love to all, Tim and Terri

Tim and Terri Cooper – July 09 2012 at 2:26 PM

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A.J. & Family - We are so sorry to hear about your mom's passing. All of you will be thankful you were so good to her. You will remain in our thoughts & prayers.

Wayne & Jane Bruening – July 09 2012 at 2:06 PM

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Dear Dick & Kate, we are thinking of you so much and sending love and hugs your way. Also many prayers for comfort to you both, and to your whole family. Much love, Lorie & Justin

JUSTIN & LORIE HICKS – July 09 2012 at 10:50 AM

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Schapman Family, We are so sorry to hear about your Mother. Wish we could be there in person, but know you are all in our thoughts and Prayers. Joan was a wonderful lady. Rick, LaVonne and Roxanne

Rick, LaVonne & Roxanne Richardson – July 08 2012 at 9:54 PM

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