Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Jerry H. Bender, age 74, of Carroll, peacefully passed away on Monday, November 27, 2017 at St. Anthony Regional Hospital in Carroll.

A Funeral Service will be held at 10:30 a.m. Friday, December 1, 2017 at St. John Evangelical Lutheran Church in Carroll. The Reverend Cindy Johnson will officiate, with Reverend Vic Johnson assisting with the funeral service. Music will be by Jan Potthoff, Wes Horn, and Leroy Moten. Readers will be Lisa Dreesman, and Peg Scheidt. Communion Servers will be John and Jackie Kitch. Casket Bearers will be Blake Bender, Nick Bender, David Beyerink, Ed Berger, Rex McClatchey, and Jim Briggs. Members of the St. Anthony Hospital Nursing Staff will form an honor guard for the funeral service. Military Honors will be conducted by the Carroll American Legion. Burial will be at 2 p.m. at the Violet Hill Cemetery in Perry, Iowa.

Visitation will be held after 5 p.m. on Thursday at St. John Evangelical Lutheran Church in Carroll where there will be a Prayer Service at 6:30 p.m. Visitation will resume at the church at 9:30 a.m. on Friday, and continue until the time of the funeral service.

Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll, and online condolences may be left for Jerry’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Jerry was born on May 19, 1943 in Perry, Iowa. He is the son of Howard and Bernice (Merical) Bender. He graduated from Perry High School in 1961. After graduating, he served in the military for 12 years, until his honorable discharge. Jerry was united in marriage to Vickie Hancock on October 1, 1961 at Perry, Iowa.

Jerry had a long career in law enforcement as a juvenile and adult probation officer. He was also a licensed private investigator. When he wasn’t working, he served on the Carroll Community School Board, and other numerous boards. Jerry was chosen to be in the first leadership institute class of 1992 to represent Carroll.

In his free time, Jerry enjoyed challenges, and was a lifelong learner. He loved to read and share thoughts of wisdom with friends and family on social media, especially Facebook. Every day at 3 p.m. he could be found in his favorite chair watching Jeopardy. Jerry was an active church member at St. John Evangelical Lutheran Church.

Jerry is survived by his wife, Vickie. They shared 56 years of marriage together. During their marriage they enjoyed traveling, spending time with friends and family, and taking care of their pets. Jerry and Vickie have two children: Deb (David) Beyerink of Carroll, and Doug (Doreen) Bender of Anthem, AZ. He leaves behind three grandchildren: Blake, Bianca, and Nick. He is also survived by his precious Miss Kitty, brothers-in-law, sisters-in-laws, nieces, nephews, and numerous friends and family.

Jerry was preceded in death by his parents, and other family members.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Deepest sympathies to the family. Take comfort in knowing that Jerry is walking beside Jesus with no oxygen tube! He is breathing easier than he ever has before! Hallelujah! Peace and comfort Mary Jo Moten

Mary Jo Moten – November 28 2017 at 1:23 PM

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To the Bender Family.My Prayer's are with you at your time of sorrows.Mr Jerry Bender a great man and a good friend.He will truly be miss.

leroy – November 28 2017 at 1:26 PM

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To my Sister Vickie and the family, Sending you our love in your hour of sadness. Jerry will be missed , He will be watching over you as he has always done. Be comforted that Jerry is in the arms of Jesus. Love you all

Paulett and Ron – November 28 2017 at 2:21 PM

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Vickie and family - so shocked and saddened to read of Jerry's passing in today's Carroll paper. I know things have been difficult for all of you the past several years, but that doesn't make this any easier for you. Vickie, you have been a wonderful friend ( in addition to being a fantastic groomer for my dog) and I can only tell you that things will get easier, in time. Meanwhile, take time to be with your family and share all your wonderful memories. Will see you in January.

Mary Young – November 28 2017 at 7:59 PM

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Vicki, Deb and Doug so sorry to hear about Jerry. He will be missed by a lot of people. Vicki you and Jerry have always been so kind to me and we have had a lot of good times and good memories. Always remember I will be here for you. Love to all of you.

Willa Harvey – November 28 2017 at 8:46 PM

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