Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Jeff Grote, age 47, of Ankeny, formerly of Breda, died Friday, August 3, 2018 at his home in Ankeny.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m. Wednesday, August 8, 2018 at St. Bernard’s Catholic Church in Breda. The Celebrant will be Fr. Mark Stoll. Music will be by Marilyn Hundling, and the St. Bernard’s Choir. Lector will be Alvin Mueggenberg. Gift Bearers will be Jeff’s nieces, and nephews: Kylie Grote, Melissa Toney, Kelsey Wiese, Nathan Kult, and Jessie Grote. Eucharistic Ministers will be Leonard and Jean Grote, and Donna Grote. Casket bearers will be Doug Gerken, Bob Gerken, Bill Vonnahme, Jason Wernimont, Randy Lenz, Ron Lenz, and Brian Steinkamp. Burial will be at St. Bernard’s Cemetery in Breda.

Friends may call at St. Bernard’s Church in Breda after 4 p.m. on Tuesday, where there will be a Rosary prayed at 5 p.m., and a Christian Wake Service will be held at 7 p.m.
In lieu of flowers memorials may be left at the church to be made to St. Anthony Infusion Center in Carroll.

Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the Sharp Funeral Home in Breda, and online condolences may be left for Jeff’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Jeffrey Michael, was born on October 26, 1970 in Carroll, Iowa, the son of Elmer and Lois (Neppl) Grote. He grew up on the family farm southwest of Breda, and attended grade school at St. Bernard’s School, before graduating from Kuemper Catholic High School in Carroll. After high school he enlisted in the Army National Guard, but health issues required Jeff to resign from his enlistment.

Jeff held various positions in the area. While working he was constantly striving to make current items better, and innovate new designs. Jeff held multiple patents on anti-theft products for semi-tractors and other transportation. He enjoyed tinkering with anything mechanical, and he appreciated visiting with people and carrying on a long conversation, even if they were complete strangers.

Survivors include his parents: Elmer and Lois Grote of rural Breda; his siblings: Deb (Keith) Kult of Coon Rapids, Dave (Toni) Grote of Arcadia, Russell Grote of Arcadia, and Janet (Tom) Grote-Knight of Bettendorf; his nieces, and nephews: Kylie Grote, Melissa (Darrin) Toney, Kelsey (Chance) Wiese, Nathan Kult, and Jessie Grote; his great-niece, and great-nephew: Adie Toney, and Wyatt Toney; as well as many friends, and other extended relatives.

Jeff was preceded in death his brother, John Grote in infancy; his paternal grandparents, Herman and Louisa Grote; and maternal grandparents, Henry and Lena Neppl.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Breda, Iowa

102 S 5th St, Breda, IA, 51436

712-673-2828

[email protected]

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Tribute Wall

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May God wrap you all in his arms & give you the peace that he has JEFF in his kingdom where there is no pain or sadness . Only Love & Joy .

marilyn & berdell jeschke – August 04 2018 at 8:53 AM

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My sympathy to Jeff’s family.

kim bauman – August 04 2018 at 8:30 PM

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I graduated high school with Jeff aka "Neffer". Everyone loved Jeff so much! He had the biggest heart of anyone I have ever met! He always had a smile, a positive attitude, and didn't know a stranger. We kept in touch over the years. Sometimes we'd run into each other in Ankeny or just message each other to check in on each other. I will always cherish our friendship and the way he positively impacted so many lives.

Amy Price – August 05 2018 at 2:25 PM

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Jeff Grote, what a great guy. He always had a positive attitude and could see the good in about every situation. Jeff was comfortable in his faith and talking about God's plan. He stopped by our shop Thursday afternoon late, just to chat and check in. He was excited about getting a new kidney in a couple weeks, and told us how he was going to get "back in shape". He talked about moving back to Breda, and building a machine shop for his lock products. He was an example of how to both think big, and appreciate what we have. My life is better having known Jeff Grote. He will be missed.

Jeff Egli – August 05 2018 at 2:52 PM

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Will miss you buddy. A Lot of great memories!! A few we wondered how we ever got into and a few things we probably shouldn't of been getting into. But you always liked to have fun and you really cherished friendship and you were one of the best. As a wrestler and a coach today you made make me realize its not about the wins and losses but what we get out of the sport. You were never one of the best wrestlers on the mat but you sure give it your all and you had fun doing it, and thats what life is about. Keep looking down on us all and giving us that big Neffer smile and handshake. God Bless you!!

Gary Schmitz – August 06 2018 at 7:41 AM

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