Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

James L. Fay, 83 of Carroll, died Friday, March 1, 2019 at Regency Park Nursing Home in Carroll.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Thursday, March 7, 2019 at St. John Paul II Parish – St. Lawrence Church in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Fr. Timothy Schott. Music will be by Kate Cuddy and the St. Lawrence Choir. Lector for the funeral mass will be Dan Petersen. Gift Bearers will be Jim’s granddaughters: Nicole Crawford, Bailey Fay, Tessa Fay, Emma Fay, Claire Kasperbauer, Mya Crawford, and Emily Eichelberger. Eucharistic Ministers will be Jean Knobbe, Diane Hannasch, and Lou Pottebaum. Casket Bearers will be Jim’s grandsons: Dan Petersen, Michael Petersen, John Streit, Jake Fay, Drew Kasperbauer, Elliott Fay, Evan Fay, Colin Kasperbauer, Nick Streit, and Trey Crawford. Burial will be in Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Carroll.

Friends may call at the Sharp Funeral Home after 5 p.m. on Wednesday where there will be a Christian Wake Service at 6:30 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Lawrence Church on Thursday morning where additional visitation will be held from 9:30-10:15 a.m.
Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Jim’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Born on August 29, 1935 at Carroll, Iowa, Jim was the son of Martin and Ernestine (Hall) Fay. While attending school, Jim began working for Hannasch Grocery in Carroll. On September 17, 1956, he was united in marriage to Diane Rettenmaier at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Carroll. Jim and Diane made their home in Carroll where they raised their family. Jim spent nearly seventy years in the grocery business; first as a Meat Manager at B&H Super Valu in Carroll as well as Frohlich’s Super Valu in Coon Rapids. Over these years he developed great relationships with his customers and the community. He enjoyed golfing, Saturday morning coffee at Frohlich’s and was an avid New York Yankees and Notre Dame Irish fan. Jim was a member of the Carroll Knights of Columbus and St. John Paul II Parish-St. Lawrence Church in Carroll.

Left to celebrate his life is his wife Diane Fay of Carroll; his children: Mike Fay of Omaha, Pat (Randy) Petersen of Waukee, Jim (Mary) Fay of Lincoln, NE, Beth Streit of Carroll, Marty Fay of Waukee, and Lori (Tim) Kasperbauer of Ankeny; his grandchildren: Nicole Crawford, Dan Petersen, Michael Petersen, Emily Eichelberger, Elliott Fay, Evan Fay, John Streit, Nick Streit, Drew Kasperbauer, Colin Kasperbauer, Claire Kasperbauer, Bailey Fay, Jake Fay, Tessa Fay, Emma Fay; 4 great-grandchildren; his sisters-in-law and brothers-in-law: Dave (Marci) Rettenmaier of Kansas City, MO, Mary (Allen) Holley of Bellevue, NE, and Kathy Rettenmaier of Owatonna, MN; special cousins, Jack, Jerry, and David Schmeiser; and other extended relatives.

Jim was preceded in death by his parents; and his son-in-law, Duane Streit.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Tribute Wall

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Jim was a wonderful man and helped me learn about the stock market why we fed the community. He impressed upon me the value of education based on the accomplishments of his kids....all which helped me go farther in my pursuits....and one cannot forget the Saturday morning coffee with Jerome and Pomeroy, definitely a honor to have seen local businessmen get together weekly, share a coffee/donut and always a laugh! Jim will be dearly missed.

Todd Nickell – March 03 2019 at 10:11 AM

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My thoughts are with the entire family today. I was so sorry to hear of Jim's passing. It had been a while since I'd seen him, but I remember him so very fondly. Amid the sadness, I hope you all have a chance to celebrate the life he lived so well. Love, David

David Rettenmaier – March 07 2019 at 11:32 AM

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