Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Irma Gehling, age 90, of Carroll, died Monday, July 12, 2021 at Regency Park Nursing Home in Carroll.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m. Friday, July 16, 2021 at Holy Spirit Church- St. John Paul II Parish in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm. Music will be by Kathy Halbur, and the Holy Spirit Choir. Lector will be Mollie Lappe. Gift Bearers will be Diane Beberniss, Duane Gehling, and Doreen Lappe. Eucharistic Minister will be Katie Hagan. Casket Bearers will be Cody Gehling, Clint Gehling, Michael Beberniss, Joseph Lappe, Amanda Lappe, and Jessi Lappe. Burial will be in Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Carroll. The Carroll Catholic Daughters of the Americas will form an honor guard for the funeral mass.

Visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll. There will be a Carroll Catholic Daughters of Americas Rosary prayed at 5 p.m., and a Christian Wake Service will be held at 7 p.m.

Visitation will resume at Holy Spirit Church on Friday morning from 9:30 to 10:15 a.m.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll, and online condolences may be left for Irma’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Irma, the daughter of Joseph and Anna (Billmeier) Meier was born on March 28, 1931 on a farm near Roselle. A lifelong resident of Carroll County, Irma attended country school near Manning, and later earned her G.E.D.
On October 19, 1950 Irma was united in marriage to Leonard Gehling at Sacred Heart Catholic Church in Manning. The couple lived near Manning until 1963 when they moved to a farm south of Carroll until 1981. At that time they moved to their current home east of Carroll. Over the years Irma worked as a cook at Holy Spirit School, Nurse’s Aide at St. Anthony Regional Hospital, J.C. Penny’s, and Sernetts. She also offered childcare out of her home. Irma enjoyed embroidery, reading, cooking, and gardening. In retirement Irma volunteered for the Holy Spirit Ladies Guild.

Irma is survived by her children: Diane K. Beberniss of Carroll, Duane L. Gehling of Coon Rapids, and Doreen A. (Mike) Lappe of Carroll; 8 grandchildren; 19 great-grandchildren with 1 more expected soon. Her siblings: JoAnn (Harold) Wittrock of Templeton, Melvin (Arlene) Meier of Manning, and Laverne Meier of Manning; as well as many nieces, nephews, and other extended family.

Irma was preceded in death by her husband Leonard Gehling in 2001; her parents: Joseph and Anna Meier, and her parents-in-law: Theodore and Catherine Gehling.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Tribute Wall

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Doreen and family, So sorry to hear of your loss. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Shannon Reising

Shannon Reising – July 14 2021 at 12:51 PM

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Your family has my sympathy. I remember Phyllis working with my mom Rosie at Sernett's. A lot of good memories.

Lisa Wolterman – July 24 2021 at 3:24 AM

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Simply Elegant Spathiphyllum was purchased for the family of Irma F. Gehling.

Comment #34698793 – July 14 2021 at 9:05 AM

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Small Garden Dish was purchased for the family of Irma F. Gehling.

Comment #34699364 – July 14 2021 at 10:33 AM

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