Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Irene Beckman, age 97, of Carroll, died peacefully on Friday, April 3, 2020 at Regency Park Nursing Home in Carroll.

A private service will be held at 11 a.m. Tuesday, April 7, 2020 at Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Fr. Timothy Schott. Honorary Casket Bearers will be Irene’s grandchildren, Evan Beckman, Lauren Harding, Megan Downey, Ashley Quinn, Kara Barton, Ray Beckman, Lexi Beckman, and Jack Beckman. Burial will be at Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Carroll. The link to our YouTube Page can be found here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqd2eeRJk5RTdEJoEooUoAQ/videos?view=2&flow=grid .Irene’s service will appear on that page when it will be available for live viewing.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll, and online condolences may be left for Irene’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Irene, the daughter of Herman and Elizabeth (Behrens) Buelt was born on April 6, 1922 in Roselle, Iowa. After completing her education in Halbur, Iowa, she attended the Iowa School of Cosmetology in Des Moines, Iowa.

On June 28, 1954, Irene was united in marriage to Raymond Beckman at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. The couple made their home in Carroll where Irene worked as a cosmetologist.

Irene enjoyed her job, her clients were not only her customers, they were also her friends. Frequently, after she styled someone’s hair, they would sit down for a cup of coffee and just talk. She also loved baking, taking walks, supporting the Chicago Cubs, playing cards, shopping, traveling across the United States, and visiting her children and grandchildren. She was also an active member of Catholic Daughters of the Americas. But her greatest love was her family.

Left to celebrate Irene’s life are her three children and their families: Mark Beckman and his wife, Gail, of Charlottesville, VA; their son, Evan (Shelly) Beckman, and their daughters , Morgan and Lydia, of Winston-Salem, NC, and their daughter, Lauren (Evan) Harding, and their sons, Hayes and Wells, of Richmond, VA; Lori Elder and her husband, George, of Charlottesville, VA; their daughter, Megan (Chris) Downey, and their children, Aiden and Charlotte, of Ruckersville, VA; their daughter, Ashley (Dan) Quinn, and their daughter, Kinley, of Warrington, PA, and their daughter, Kara (Jeff) Barton, of Richmond, VA; Scott Beckman and his wife, Teresa, of Grayslake, IL; and their children, Ray Beckman of Chicago, IL, Lexi Beckman of Grayslake, IL, and Jack Beckman of Grayslake, IL. Also surviving are her sisters-in law, Virginia Buelt of Waltham, MN, and Katie Buelt of Pittsville, WI; as well as many nieces, nephews, and other extended relatives.

Irene was preceded in death by her husband, Raymond, her parents, and her siblings: John (Bertha) Buelt, Mary (Peter) Heithoff, Albert (Adelaide) Buelt, Edward Buelt, Eleanor (Herbert) Steffes, Olga (George) Mooney, Louis Buelt, Herbert (Lucille) Buelt, Leonard Buelt.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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I send my prayers and thoughts to the family. Losing both Irene and Ray in such a short time period is difficult. They are together again. My sympathy. Pat Ortner

Pat Ortner – April 04 2020 at 9:41 PM

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Our Deepest Sympathy to Your Family at this time of losing your mom and grandma. We wish that we could be there to offer our support at this difficult time but know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers. Many the many memories that you have of Irene offer you comfort and peace. Love to All, Cathy and Dan Onken

Cathy Onken – April 05 2020 at 1:39 PM

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We are so very sorry to hear about the loss of your mom. To lose both of your parents in such a short time must be sooo difficult, but knowing they are at peace and together hopefully will give you some comfort. Your mom gave my parents this beautiful silver platter for a wedding gift so many years ago and now I have it. It'll always be a remembrance of your mom each time I use it. May the many good memories you have help you through this difficult time. We wish we could be there in person to extend our deepest sympathy but know that we are thinking of you all and sending our love,prayers and support. Take care, Love, Carol & Bob

Carol Klocke – April 06 2020 at 11:46 AM

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Sending our sympathies to your family. We will have all of you in our prayers this Holy Week. God Bless, Dan and Amy Tunning

Dan Tunning – April 06 2020 at 5:25 PM

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My prayers and sympathy for the loss of your parents Grew to know them at Recency when having Mass on Tuesdays. They were great and will miss them.

Florence Oswald l – April 07 2020 at 7:16 AM

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