Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Gene Grethen, 89, of Carroll died Sunday, August 25, 2013 in his home, surrounded by his family.

Gene Grethen was the ninth of ten children, born on the family farm east of Mallard on December 23, 1923, to Jacob and Mary (Segar) Grethen. Gene graduated from Rolfe High School. He had the opportunity to be a farmer, carpenter, entrepreneur, and was known to be a hard worker who was loyal to his employers and enjoyable to work with. On June 23, 1952 he was joyfully united in marriage to Millie Hausman at St. Augustine’s Catholic Church in Halbur, Iowa. In 1962 he moved his family to Greenfield Iowa, where Gene farmed until 1967 when they moved to Carroll Iowa. Gene gave 30 years of dedicated service to the Carroll Parks Department from where he retired. Gene was a member of the Knights of Columbus, and Holy Spirit Catholic Church. He attended mass nearly every morning, enjoyed playing cards with his buddies in the morning, and taking a midday break with his coffee buddies at the local grocery. He liked taking long walks. After his beloved Millie passed away, he often times walked to the cemetery to visit her and to tend a headstone plant or to bring a flower. He loved to tend his vegetable garden and had a green thumb that could grow almost anything. He enjoyed music, current events, old western TV shows and the company of his family and his friends. He vacationed with his family every year and for many decades, spent a week at Fillenwarths Beach, on West Lake Okoboji with brothers and sisters, nieces and nephews. Although he wasn’t much of a swimmer, he most enjoyed the evening booze cruises and Monday night mixers on the waterfront. He enjoyed his last Okoboji sunset under the loving care of his dear family this past July. He volunteered his time to his community, volunteering for church related tasks, planting flowers for the city in spring and cutting fabric squares for rug making.

Gene is survived by his children Steven Grethen of Carroll and Lisa Bohn of Des Moines Iowa; Grandchildren, Megan Gainey, Abby Grethen, Jeannie (James) Dawson and Michael Smith; Great grandchildren, Joseph, Katie, Emma Jean, and Amberleigh Dawson; Siblings, Walter Grethen and MaryLou (Loren) Thompson. Surviving in-laws include, Loren Thompson, Delores Grethen, Esther Hausman, Andy & Sally Hausman, Hilda & Cyril Schulte, Sally Stickrod, Don McCormick, Norma Schmidt, Virginia Hausman and Dorothy Irlmeier.

He was preceded in death by his parents, his loving wife Millie in 2001, beloved daughter Jean Marie; dear siblings, James, Alice, Lillian, Caroline, Liberty, Leo and Leona and many cherished in-laws.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be held at 11 a.m. Thursday, August 29, 2013 at Holy Spirit Catholic Church in Carroll. Fr. Timothy Johnson will celebrate the funeral mass. Soloist will be John Wagner. Lectors will be Annie Bjustrom and Kathy Kraus. Gift Bearers will be Gene’s great grandchildren, Joseph and Katie Dawson. Casketbearers will be: Ron Hausman, Michael Smith, Jim Bohn, Jim Clark, Tom Thompson, and Abby Grethen. Burial will be in Mt. Olivet Cemetery, Carroll.

Friends may call at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll, after 4:30 p.m. on Wednesday, August 28, 2013 where there will be a Knights of Columbus Rosary at 5 p.m. and a Christian Wake Service by Holy Spirit Parish at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to the church at 9:30 a.m. Thursday, where visitation will resume until the start of the funeral mass.

Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll, and online condolences for Gene’s family may be left at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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I have very fond memories of Uncle Gene. He was warm and kind and always welcoming. Although he was quiet he had a good sense of humor and remember him often laughing and joking (usually with my dad) during the countless hours of card games which took place at the Grethen's kitchen table. I wish I could be there to celebrate his life and share in memories with Lisa and Steve. With much love, Kathy(Schmidt) Broderick

Kathy (Schmidt) Broderick – August 27 2013 at 3:01 PM

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My thoughts and prayers are with you, Steve and Lisa....your dad was like a dad to me growing up in Rolling Hills with Steve and the gang....many good memories! With love and hugs Michael Cawley

Michael Cawley – August 29 2013 at 4:02 PM

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Thanks Michael... or rather, Thanks Coolie :-)

Lisa Grethen-Bohn – August 31 2013 at 6:34 PM

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Thanks Kathy... he loved you and LOVED watching you and your family on my facebook ;-)

Lisa Grethen-Bohn – August 31 2013 at 6:35 PM

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Secret Garden Basket was purchased for the family of Gene Grethen.

Comment #8025595 – August 27 2013 at 1:52 PM

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