Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Gene Bretey, 72, of Carroll, died Wednesday, April 29, 2015 at St. Anthony Regional Hospital in Carroll surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10 a.m. Tuesday, May 5, 2015, at St. Lawrence Catholic Church in Carroll. The celebrant will be Fr. Timothy Schott. Music will be by Kate Cuddy, Todd Karolczak and the St. Lawrence Choir. Mass Servers will be Emma and Madison Shook. Lector will be Gerald Bretey. Gift Bearers will be Katelyn Bretey, Brooke Fortner, Joshua Langel, Autumn Fortner, Carter Bretey, and Madisyn Bretey. Eucharistic Ministers will be Lois Shook, Keith Bretey and Shirley Scanlan. Casket Bearers will be Scott Bretey, Clayton Bretey, Chad Shook, Eric Bretey, Shane Bretey, Nick Langel, Micaela Bretey, Megan Langel, and Tyler Bretey. Burial will be in the Carroll City Cemetery with military honors conducted by the Carroll American Legion.

Friends may call at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll after 5 p.m. Monday, where there will be a Christian Wake Service at 6:30 p.m.

The casket will be moved to St. Lawrence Church at 9 a.m. Tuesday where visitation will resume until the time of the funeral mass.

Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll, and online condolences may be left for Gene’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com. In lieu of flowers, a memorial fund has been established in Gene’s name and may be left at the funeral home or at the church.

Born on August 10, 1942 in Odebolt, Iowa, Gene Raymond was the son of Leslie and Bernice (Bauer) Bretey. The family lived in Odebolt until 1949 when they moved to a farm north of Arion. Gene was baptized at St. Martin’s Catholic Church in Odebolt and was confirmed at St. Mary’s Catholic Church in Dow City, Iowa.

Gene received his elementary education through 7th grade at country school in Paradise Township, and graduated high school from Denison Community Schools in 1961. Gene joined the National Guard in 1961 and was honorably discharged in 1968. For one summer Gene drove a stock car at the Denison raceway.

On September 11, 1965, Gene was united in marriage to Judith Ann Ladwig at St. Mary’s Catholic Church in Dow City. The couple lived in Dunlap and Denison before making their home in Carroll in 1974. Gene was an over the road truck driver and “Silver Dollar” was his radio handle. Over the years he drove for Othmar Schnueltgen, Allied Van Lines, Film Transport, Grothaus, and for Crouse Cartage Company from 1972 until his final retirement in 2000. Gene won several state awards in Iowa truck rodeos and won 3rd place at the National Truck Rodeo in 1979.

Gene had a love for life and was always smiling. He was a devoted husband and enjoyed his family above everything. He was an avid camper and especially enjoyed their longtime membership at Cloud 9 Ranch in Caulfield, Missouri, taking the ATV, and riding the trails. He also enjoyed playing cards and going to his grandchildren’s various activities. Gene was a member of St. Lawrence Parish and often volunteered to be an usher and gift collector.

Left to cherish his memory include his wife, Judith Bretey of Carroll; three children: Tina Bretey (fiancé Mike Allen) of Carroll, Tammy (Curt) Langel of Carroll, and Travis (Maria) Bretey of Carroll; ten grandchildren: Brooke and Autumn Fortner, Nick, Megan, and Josh Langel, Micaela, Tyler, Katelyn, Carter and Madisyn Bretey; his siblings: Lois (Paul) Shook of Denison, Gerald (Karen) Bretey of Clive, Leroy (Patty) Bretey of Omaha, NE, John (Marcia) Bretey of Carroll, and Bill (Mary) Bretey of Fairmont, MN; his mother-in-law, Helma Ladwig of Denison, his brothers-in-law and sisters-in-law: Nellie (Tudy) Bretey of Denison, Larry (Annie) Ladwig of Phoenix, AZ, Bill Ladwig of McPherson, KS, Gary (Nancy) Ladwig of Charter Oak, Glen (Maralee) Ladwig of Savage, MN; Carol (Gale) Reis of Denison; Donna Ladwig of Carroll, and Debra (Adam) Lahlou of Centennial, CO, as well as many nieces, nephews, and other extended relatives.

Gene was preceded in death by his parents, a brother, Dale Bretey, and his father-in-law William Ladwig.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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To the Bretey Family: I was shocked to hear of Genes passing. I lot of memories of years past. He always had a pleasant personality. My thougts and prayers are with you. God's Blessings.

Jerry Boger – April 29 2015 at 10:58 AM

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Sending our deepest sympathy. The Bretey's are some of the best folks ever! Sincerely, Dan & Patti Muhlbauer

Dan & Patti Muhlbauer – May 02 2015 at 10:18 PM

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Our thoughts and prayers are with the Bretey family during this difficult time.

Mike and Robyn Brinker – May 03 2015 at 8:51 PM

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Dear Uncle and Godfather, May you be restfully in the arms of Grandma / Grandpa and Uncle Dale. I will never forget the Duke of Hazard skills you taught me at a young age and the way I enjoyed the musical announcement mounted on your pick-up truck. The memories will be forever in my heart and mind. Tina, Tammy, Travis and Judy, I am blessed to be chosen to be part of your family and I love you all very much. I am very sorry Uncle Gene was taken from you and the family so early. We all have many childhood and adult memories with Gene and cherish each and every one of them. You ladies are like the sisters I never had. There are many more memories to come and Uncle Gene will always be part of those stories and memories. Cherish Each Day you have together. Just "Smile and Nod" :) Talon read me this quote this morning from a great kids book, "You'll come across plenty of things along your journey that aren't awesome. Some days it will seem like there's more bad than good, but you know that's not true. On days when it's hard to see the awesome, keep looking. It's there."

Christie Shook Adams – May 04 2015 at 9:44 AM

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Judy and family, We were so very sorry to hear about Gene. It is so very sad. Sorry that we can't be there but at this time it is not possible for us to leave AZ. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Yours very sincerely, Laurel and Ken Rubendall

Laurel Rubendall – May 05 2015 at 3:55 PM

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