Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Florence “Flossie” Marie Kokenge, age 95, of Carroll died on Tuesday, August 6, 2019 at Regency Park Nursing Home in Carroll.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 9:30 a.m. Saturday, August 10, 2019 at St. John Paul II Parish, Holy Spirit Church in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Fr. Kevin Richter. Music will be by Dr. Franklyn Busby, Pastoral Musician, and the Holy Spirit Resurrection Choir. The Lector will be Megan Alvarado. Gift Bearers will be Jodi Jorgensen, Jackie Adkins, and Jennifer Kokenge. Eucharistic Minister will be Joan Badding. Casket Bearers will be Tommy Kokenge, Rick Siepker, Jeremy Tunning, Cory Tunning, Nick Kokenge, Andrew Fasbender, Blaise Hass, Kobe Hass, and Jacob Maasen. Honorary Casket Bearers will be Tyler Kokenge, Keith Kokenge, Cory Kokenge, Joe Kokenge, and Brandon Maasen. Burial will be at Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Carroll.

Friends may call at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll after 4 p.m. on Friday where there will be a Rosary prayed at 5 p.m., and a Christian Wake Service will be held at 7 p.m.

The casket will be moved to Holy Spirit Church on Saturday morning where visitation will resume from 8:45 a.m. until the time of the funeral mass at 9:30 a.m.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll, and online condolences may be left for Florence’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Born December 24, 1923 at Roselle, Iowa, Florence was the daughter of Joseph and Josephine (Haberl) Steffes. Florence grew up on a farm near Roselle and attended school in Roselle at Holy Angels School. On February 9, 1943, Florence married Lawrence Kokenge, her husband of 54 years, at Holy Angels Catholic Church in Roselle, Iowa. The couple made their home in Auburn and Adair before settling in Carroll.

Flossie cherished her time with her children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. She was an inspiring role model to her ten kids and a great homemaker. She loved to bake and enjoyed playing cards, the piano, and writing poetry. She loved her cats and drinking coffee on her porch on Saturday mornings with her many friends and family.

Florence is survived by her children: Nancy (Bruce) Graff of Henderson, Nevada; David (Mary) Kokenge of Eloy, Arizona; Joni (Les) Olson of Orlando, Florida; Connie (Dick) Tunning of Dedham, Iowa; Danny (Laura) Kokenge of Milford, Ohio; Deanna (Riley) Fasbender of Mesa, Arizona; Luwana Hass (Mike Ross) of Carroll, Iowa; and Kristy (Brad) Maasen of Mt. Carmel, Iowa; two daughters-in-law: Gayle Kokenge of Carroll, and Bobbie Kokenge of Carroll; 25 grandchildren; 36 great-grandchildren; 7 great-great-grandchildren; two sisters, Bernice Irlmeier of Templeton and Coletta (Tootie) Wernimont of Fonda, Iowa; and a sister-in-law, Dixie Steffes of New Hampton, Iowa.

Florence was preceded in death by her husband Lawrence Kokenge in 1997; two sons, Jerry Kokenge in 2012 and Kenny Kokenge in 2009; two grandsons, Dave Siepker and Josh Tunning both in 2006; and siblings Hilda Schroeder, Lucille (Bay) Galloway, Irene (Leo) Ertz, Elizabeth (Florian) Wittrock, Lawrence (Darlene) Steffes, and Norbert Steffes.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Full Of Love Bouquet was purchased for the family of Florence Kokenge.

Comment #28643304 – August 06 2019 at 10:17 PM

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Florist Choice Bouquet was purchased for the family of Florence Kokenge.

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J,G,C,A,M,M,J,H The Alvarado Family purchased the Sweet Solace Spray for the family of Florence Kokenge.

J,G,C,A,M,M,J,H The Alvarado Family – August 08 2019 at 12:10 PM

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A person that departs from this earth never truly leaves, for they are still alive in our hearts, through us, they live on. Our condolences on the loss of your mom. Petra and Steve

Petra König – August 07 2019 at 8:42 PM

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May your memories comfort you during this difficult time. A Mother is a one who takes the place of many, but whose place can not be taken. Sending sympathies and prayers your way. Lyn Knobbe-Krause

Lyn Knobbe – Krause – August 07 2019 at 7:40 PM

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