Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Eunice Starman, age 83, of Carroll, died peacefully on January 9, 2016, surrounded by family at St. Anthony Regional Hospital in Carroll, Iowa.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m. Tuesday, January 12, 2016 at Holy Spirit Catholic Church in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Fr. Timothy Johnson. Music will be by Barb McDermott and the Holy Spirit Choir with Jake Gute as soloist. Eucharistic Minister will be her son Randy Starman. Casket Bearers, Honorary Casket Bearers, Lectors and Gift Bearers will be her grandchildren; Ryan, Steve, and Adam Brown, Aaron Irlbeck, Alicia Newman, Chris and Nic Starman, Dan, Ben, and Josh Klocke, Nicole Larsen, Dave, Matt, and Erica Starman, Nathan Onken, Rachel O’Polka, Abbey Onken, Clark Thompson, Chris Shuman, Meredith Cumro, Jon Shuman, Anna and Scott Drees, Madi, Alex, and Derek Drees. Burial will be at Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Carroll.

Friends may call at Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll after 4 p.m. on Monday where there will be a Rosary prayed at 5 p.m., and a Christian Wake Service will be held at 6:30 p.m.

The casket will be moved to Holy Spirit Church at 9:30 a.m. on Tuesday, where visitation will resume until the time of the funeral mass.

In lieu of flowers memorials may be left at the funeral home or at the church to be directed to the Alzheimer’s Association, Kuemper Catholic Schools, or Holy Spirit Parish.

Eunice was born on July 13, 1932, daughter of Henry J. and Ann R. (Schwabe) Beckman in Westside, Iowa. The family then moved to Arcadia where Eunice attended grade school at St. John’s and graduated from Arcadia High School, where she played basketball and was also the valedictorian.

After graduation, Eunice worked for Iowa Master Breeders Hatchery, where she first set eyes on her sweetheart. She officially met Louis Starman at a dance at the Arcadia Legion Hall. Louis proposed on Easter Sunday and they were married on Tuesday, August 19, 1952 at St. John’s Church in Arcadia. The Starmans made their home in Carroll where they raised their nine children. Eunice also worked at JcPenney’s for many years after her children all entered school.

Eunice’s 63 year marriage to Louis was long lasting and a true love story. Their marriage was a true testament of love and commitment. Respect for each other and humor were important to the success of their marriage and they could usually be seen holding hands.

Family was Eunice’s greatest joy. She thoroughly enjoyed her children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. She made a blanket for every newborn grandchild and an afghan for every grandchild’s high school graduation. There were always cookies in the cookie jar and a comfortable lap available. She enjoyed sewing and made many outfits for the kids. Special memories were made on many family vacations.

Eunice was a member of Holy Spirit Parish where she was past president of the St. Peter & Paul’s Ladies’ Guild and very active in parish activities. She also enjoyed playing cards and socializing with friends, especially her Monday night pizza friends, and treasured the friendship and coffee with her neighbors.

Left to cherish her memory are her husband, Louis Starman; nine children and their spouses: Jane (Dan) Brown, Prosper, TX, Donna (Dick) Irlbeck, Templeton, Jim (Louise) Starman, Wilmington, NC, Carol (Bob) Klocke, Mason City, Randy (Pam) Starman, Carroll, Cathy (Dan) Onken, Carroll, Mary (Phil) Shuman, Bellevue, NE, Deanne (Jim) Drees, Carroll, and Sara (Howie) Drees, Carroll, 26 grandchildren, and 28 great grandchildren. She is also survived by a brother, Ray (Irene) Beckman, Carroll and sisters, Lucille Buelt, Halbur, Virginia (Leonard) Buelt, Austin, MN, Phyllis (Don) Wernimont, Virginia Beach, VA, and Verna (Leonard) Tunning, Dedham, a sister-in-law, Margaret Kasperbauer, Manning, brother-in-law, Milo Rees, Guthrie Center as well as many nieces and nephews and extended relatives.

Eunice is preceded in death by a son, Ronald Louis, in infancy, along with her parents, brother-in-law, Herb Buelt, mother and father-in-law, Henry and Catherine Starman, and sister-in-laws Sophia Rees and Theresa (Paul) Mayer and brother-in-laws, Tony (Lorraine) Starman and Jerome Kasperbauer.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Tribute Wall

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I got to know Eunice through her many visits to Lucille at Swan House. She was a very kind and caring person. My sympathy to all of those grieving her passing. Connie Blum

Connie Blum – January 10 2016 at 10:53 PM

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Eunice and Louis hosted a get-together at their house shortly after we moved to neighborhood. Her friendly smile sure made us feel welcome, and we've always enjoyed our short visits whenever we bumped into each other outside. We'll miss you, dear neighbor. ~Segebart Family

Sarah – January 11 2016 at 3:48 AM

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Tricia Storey, David Klocke, and Joleen Klocke extend our thoughts and prayers to the Starman family. Love to you during this difficult time.

joleen klocke – January 10 2016 at 6:10 PM

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Lit a candle in memory of Eunice Starman

Holley Drees – January 11 2016 at 2:36 AM

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Lit a candle in memory of Eunice Starman

Bobenmoyer Family – January 11 2016 at 5:01 PM

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