Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Elva Bernholtz, 93 of Carroll, died early Monday morning, November 11, 2024 at St. Anthony Nursing Home in Carroll.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 11 a.m., Saturday, November 16, 2024 at St. Lawrence Church – St. John Paul II Parish in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Fr. Timothy Schott. Music will be by Kathy Halbur, Kathleen Macke and Dawn Wood. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Elise Soyer. Gift Bearers will be Sydney Julich, Avalyse Julich, and Emma Wood. Casket Bearers will be Brian Renze, Brad Renze, Matt Julich, Mike Julich, Eric Bernholtz, and Andrew Bernholtz. Burial will be in Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Carroll.

Visitation will be held at the church on Saturday morning prior to the Funeral Mass from 10-10:45 a.m.
Memorials may be left at the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Elva’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Born May 22, 1931 in Carroll, Iowa, Elva was the daughter of Frank and Mary (Janning), Lambertz. She spent a few early years in Maple River before moving to Carroll. She graduated from St. Angela Academy in Carroll.

Elva was united in marriage to Lyle Bernholtz on July 25, 1952, in Yankton, S.D. They made their home together for 46 years in Carroll, Iowa.

Elva was not only a homemaker, but worked at various jobs i.e. Davis Paint Store, Green Meadows Cafe, and Bernholtz Bros. Locker. She also worked for three photography studios — Paige & Paige Studios, Vanderheiden Studios, and Wandel’s Studios. Before color film was widely used, she would spend many hours at the kitchen table tinting with oil paint the black and white photos enhancing their appearance and bringing them to life. She enjoyed reading, cross-stitching, and crocheting many afghans for family, friends, and baby afghans for St. Anthony Auxiliary.

One of Elva’s favorite pastimes was bowling. For many years she belonged to three different bowling leagues. She won numerous awards and held one of the highest averages in all three leagues.

Left to honor her memory are her children: Sherry (Jerry) Renze; Jerry (Dianne) Bernholtz; Cindy Bernholtz; Sandy (Tom) Julich; Jim Bernholtz; Scott (special friend Peggy) Bernholtz; 9 grandchildren; 18 great-grandchildren; her sisters: Evelyn (Dan) Bowser, Cathy Christiansen, and Mary Lechtenberg; her sisters-in-law: Rosemary Wiederin, Mary Bernholtz, Barb Lambertz, and a very close family friend Janean Haukap.

She was preceded in death by her husband Lyle in 1998; her parents; her brothers: Art (Alice) Lambertz, Leo (Lois) Lambertz, and Joe Lambertz; her brothers-in-law, Vern Lechtenberg, Virgil Christensen, Merle (Loretta) Bernholtz, Dale Bernholtz, and John Wiederin.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Tribute Wall

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My deepest sympathy to all of Elva's Family. I got married in 1961 and in 1962 Elva touched up my black & white portrait to perfection with the color of the flower and ribbon and highlighted the veil. Lyle & Elva were great neighbors when we lived in Carroll. Alice Sundrup

Alice J Sundrup – November 15 2024 at 9:15 PM

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She was a kind Soul. And very thoughtful. Natalie

Natalie Irlbeck – March 09 2025 at 6:25 AM

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For years Elva came to get her hair done at my mom’s beauty shop in our home. I always thought she was a very sweet lady with a lot of class. My sympathies to the family. RIP Elva.

Beth Heisterkamp Schechinger – November 15 2024 at 8:02 PM

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Charla Grote – November 16 2024 at 8:57 AM

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