Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Elaine Eleanore Buelt passed away on January 21, 2020, at Accura HealthCare. She was born to Bertha (Testroet) and John Buelt, Sr., on April 26, 1942, in Carroll, Iowa.

A funeral mass will be celebrated at 10 a.m. Saturday, October 23, 2021 at St. Lawrence Church – St. John Paul II Parish in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Fr. Kevin Richter. Music will be by Kathy Halbur and Sherry Loughran. Lector will be Stan Buelt. Burial will be in St. Augustine Cemetery in Halbur.

In lieu of flowers contributions in Elaine’s memory may be made to New Hope Village, Carroll, Iowa, or to the charity of your choice.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll, and online condolences can be left for Elaine’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Elaine was a special needs child and learning did not come as easily to her as it did to her classmates at St. Augustine’s School, Halbur. Today we would call her early education” home schooled”. However, Elaine was blessed as a young woman when New Hope Village was established and she could take the bus to school every day where she learned new skills and expanded her social world.

Over time, New Hope became Elaine’s permanent home where she was able to live in a group setting, learn life skills, and enjoy many friendships. She was also able to develop work skills and held jobs in such things as office cleaning and sorting recycling. She showed an artistic side in painting holiday ceramics and other works of self-expression.

Elaine enjoyed life. She loved wearing costume jewelry, lunching with a friend and taking mini vacations to various locations around the Midwest. Elaine was a Christian and appreciated the opportunity to attend Mass with friends and family.

Elaine did not take up much space in this world, but she brought a big smile and lots of love to the place she occupied. She was quiet and more content to listen than lead the conversation. But she could ascertain and point out some basic truths that those around may have overlooked. And she did it with the assurance that any thinking person would agree with her.

Elaine is survived by her brothers Norman, Olatha, Kansas, and Allen (Barb), Omaha, Nebraska, and sisters, Lenore Lodge of Sioux City, Carol Riesenberg, Moscow, Idaho, and Mary Johnson, Tucson, Arizona. She is also survived by brother-in-law Ron Ensley, Great Bend, Kansas, and many cousins, nieces and nephews. Elaine was preceded in death by her parents and by her brother John and sister Diane.

Elaine and her family appreciated the kind and thoughtful care she received from New Hope Village, Accura HealthCare, and Kindred Hospice staff.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Tribute Wall

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I was blessed to work at New Hope Village many years ago. I worked in cottage 2 and that is where I met Elaine. Elaine was truly a happy person. She shared her wonderful smile with all she met.

maria mahoney – October 18 2021 at 11:17 PM

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I worked at the home she was at when she was at New Hope. She was always a very interesting person to talk with and she would let you know when she needed help with certain things she needed. But she liked her independence also to do what she wanted and to get her own things when she was able to get them.

Dianna – January 28 2020 at 5:39 AM

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So sorry for your loss, my sympathies to the family. Lynann Daniel

Lynann Daniel – January 29 2020 at 1:39 PM

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So sorry to hear about Elaine. She was a kind, quiet soul. She cared about others. She was definitely a gift to all of us at New Hope.

Donna – February 13 2020 at 6:58 AM

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Elaine always had a smile on her face Ned a kind and quiet soul. My prayers to the family.

Pat Ortner – October 19 2021 at 12:11 PM

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