Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Edward Gehling, 82 of Carroll, died Saturday, December 1, 2012 at St. Anthony Regional Hospital in Carroll surrounded by his family following a courageous battle with cancer.
Mass of the Christian Burial will be at 10:30 a.m. Tuesday, December 4, 2012 at Holy Spirit Catholic Church in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Fr. Timothy Johnson. Mass Servers will be Seth Gehling and Sosie Gehling. Music will be by Barb McDermott and the Holy Spirit Choir. Lector for the funeral mass will be Sister Joann Gehling F.S.P.A. Gift Bearers will be: Ryan Hart, Brad Hart, Alyssa Willenborg, Bryant Gehling and Chad Gehling. Eucharistic Ministers will be: Mary Jo Berning, Margene Heisterkamp and Georgia Von Arx. Honorary Casket Bearers will be: Alyssa Willenborg, Melissa Hart, Matt Willenborg, Doug Happe, Diane Halbur and Cindy Duhrkopf. Casket Bearers will be: Ryan Hart, Brad Hart, Bryant Gehling, Chad Gehling, Alan Gehling, and Tom Schmitz. Burial will be at Mt. Olivet Cemtery in Carroll.
Friends may call at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll after 4:30 p.m. on Monday where there will be a rosary at 5 p.m. and a Christian Wake Service at 7 p.m. by Holy Spirit Parish. The casket will be moved to Holy Spirit Church at 9 a.m. on Tuesday where visitation will resume until time of the funeral mass.
Memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for St. Anthony Hospice. Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll.
Born on July 24, 1930 at Carroll, Iowa, Edward was the son of Herman and Genevieve (Gross) Gehling. He spent his entire lifetime in the Carroll area and attended Sts. Peter and Paul School. Following his schooling he helped his family with their farming operation. On November 22, 1952 he married Lorraine Berning at St. Bernard’s Catholic Church in Breda. Following their marriage he farmed in the Carroll area and in 1959 purchased a farm near Willey. In 1997 Ed and Lorraine moved to Carroll but he continued to go to the family farm every day up until his illness. Ed enjoyed playing cards, farming, having coffee with his friends, and participating in the fall pheasant hunt each year. He loved his family especially his grandchildren and great grandchildren. This Thanksgiving, Ed and Lorraine celebrated their 60 years of marriage together. He was a member of the Carroll County Cattle and Pork Producers, Iowa Farm Bureau, former member of Knights of Columbus, former member of St. Mary’s Parish in Willey, and currently a member of Holy Spirit Parish in Carroll.
Survivors include his wife of 60 years, Lorraine Gehling of Carroll; his children: Janice Gehling of Carroll, Jean Gehling of Shenandoah, and Matt Gehling of Carroll; his grandchildren: Ryan (Melissa) Hart of Boone, Brad Hart of Ames, Alyssa (Matt) Willenborg of Dedham, Bryant Gehling of Dedham and Chad Gehling of Carroll; his great-grandchildren: Collin Willenborg and Kaleb Gehling; his sisters: Rita Anstoeter of Carroll, Rose Ocken of Carroll, and Sister Joann Gehling F.S.P.A. of Hiawatha; his brothers: Bob (JoAnn) Gehling of Carroll, and Jerry (Kathy) Gehling of Phoenix, AZ; his sisters-in-law and brothers-in-law: Lillian Gehling of Grand Meadow, MN, Linda Gehling of Carroll, Delores (Bob) Nagl of Carroll, Bonnie Rasmussen of Newton, Rita (Merlin) Wuebker of Milford, Clarence Berning of Carroll, Lois (Alfred) Hoffman of Coon Rapids, and Leo (Mary Jo) Berning of Arcadia; as well as many nieces, nephews, and other extended relatives.
Ed was preceded in death by his parents; infant son, Joseph Gehling; his parents-in-law, Leo and Frances Berning; his sisters: Louise Schmitz and Norma Rasmussen; his brothers: George, Vernon, Carl, and James Gehling; his in-laws: Walter Schmitz, Louis Anstoeter, Wilfred Ocken, Ed Rasmussen, and Sally Berning.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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I was very sad to hear of Ed's death and share in the family's sadness. I am glad I got to know Ed and knew him to be a kind, caring man who was always interested in what was going in your life when you visited with him. I remember being out to the farm and seeing Ed out there. He loved his farm and being out there. I wish the family peace and comfort during this time of sadness. He will be greatly missed.

Robert M Wetherell – December 05 2012 at 10:51 PM

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My condolenes on the passing of Ed. Glad I had him on my team of patients on Saturday at the hospital. He is blessed to have such a wonderful family to be there for him through this. He is in a better place...where we all hope to go someday! Ed is at peace now and would want all of you to be at peace also with this!! Honor his life and cherish the memories!! Thinking of all of you!

Sandy (Gallagher) Williams – December 03 2012 at 9:47 PM

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