Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

To view the livestream of Donna’s Funeral Mass please click the following link: https://youtu.be/UBfeLlWskyo

Donna Gehling, age 88, of Carroll, died Thursday, September 9, 2021 at St. Anthony Regional Hospital in Carroll.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m. Saturday, September 11, 2021 at St. Lawrence Church-St. John Paul II Parish in Carroll. The celebrant will be Fr. Timothy Schott. Music will be by Kathy Halbur and Kathleen Macke. Lector will be Cassie Esdohr. Gift Bearers will be Alyce Nieland and Paige Thomas. Eucharistic Minister will be Brian Baumhover. Honorary Casket Bearers will be Stuart Calvert, Sarah Hobson Calvert, Todd Williams, Laura Hobson, Chris Baker, Teresa Baker, Terri Jo Gehling, Dean Schnieder, Jennifer Schnieder, Alyce Nieland, Adam Thomas, Paige Thomas, and Cassie Esdohr. Casket Bearers will be Ted Gehling, Steven Gehling, Sam Gehling, Alex Gehling, Aaron Nieland, and Jacob Esdohr. Burial will be in Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Carroll.

Visitation will be held from 9:15 a.m. to 10:15 a.m. Saturday morning at the Church.

A livestream of Donna’s funeral mass will be available on the Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll, YouTube page. A Link will be provided on Donna’s obituary page at www.sharpfuneral.com on Saturday morning.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll, and online condolences may be left for Donna’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Donna, the daughter of Clayton and Mary (Nees) Daniel, was born on October 1, 1932 on the family farm south of Lidderdale, Iowa. She attended Holy Family School in Lidderdale and graduated from St. Angela’s Academy in Carroll.

On January 22, 1951 Donna was united in marriage to Vincent Gehling at Holy Family Catholic Church in Lidderdale. Donna and Vincent lived on a farm south of Halbur for many years. She was a devoted wife and mother. Donna enjoyed gardening and canning the bounty it created. She raised chickens, and gathered and cleaned the eggs to sell to the many customers that stopped by. She also delivered to the many Café’s in town. Donna enjoyed baking and decorating cakes for family special occasions. Donna was also an accomplished seamstress, which kept her busy. She loved to embroider items, which she gave to her children and grandchildren. After moving to Carroll in 1985 she enjoyed the neighborhood ladies’ coffee gatherings and games they played. In her spare time Donna often read story books. Donna was a member of St. Lawrence Church- St. John Paul II Parish.

Donna is survived by her daughter: Dr. Sandra (Daniel) Hobson of Des Moines; sons: Bruce (Denise) Gehling of Carroll, Brian (Jeanne) Gehling of Carroll, and Brent (Janis) Gehling of Manning; 12 grandchildren, 19 great-grandchildren, and 1 step grandchild; her siblings: Joan (Jerry) Feeney of Council Bluffs, Larry (Rosie) Daniel of Lidderdale, Robert (Mary) Daniel of Gettysburg PA, Janice (Mike) Boes of Urbandale; her sister-in-law: Freda Barron of Niles, MI, as well as many nieces, nephews, and other extended family members.

Donna was preceded in death by her husband Vincent in 2003; a grandson, Nicholas; Parents: Clayton and Mary Daniel; parents-in-law: Theodore and Catherine Gehling; brothers: John and Roland (Marian) Daniel; and her brothers-in-law and sisters-in-law: Marie (Rod) Von Eschen, Anna (Herman) Rath, Lucille (James) Jackley, Frank (Norma Jean) Gehling, John (Marjorie) Gehling, Leonard (Irma) Gehling, Leo Gehling, Helen (Charles) Gray, and Bill Barron.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Sincere sympathy to all the family Always enjoyed seeing Donna . Vickie Duff and family .

Vickie Duff and family – September 10 2021 at 4:29 PM

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7:58 PM Aunt Donna was so well respected by all of the Barron's. My God she could cook. We always enjoyed our visits with Aunt Donna and Uncle Vince. We love her and will very much miss her. We will always remember her with love. Freda, Kate and, Debbie Barron and Family

Debbie Barron – September 12 2021 at 8:04 PM

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