Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Donna Mae Ankenbauer, age 90, passed away peacefully, Wednesday, July 3, 2024 at the Manning Regional Healthcare Center in Manning, Iowa.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m. Wednesday, July 10, 2024 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Cindy Bauer and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector will be Julie Greving. Gift Bearers will be the Mike and Lizzy Heinrichs Family. Eucharistic Minister will be Linda Sporrer. Casket bearers will be Joshua Halterman, Zachary Halterman, Nathaniel Halterman, Daniel Halterman, Travis Hilgenberg, Trevor Hilgenberg, Tyler Hilgenberg, Tiffany Fatka, and Lukas Volman. Burial will be in the Newton Township Cemetery near Dedham.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Tuesday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll. A Rosary will be prayed at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Wednesday morning where visitation will resume from 9:30 to 10:15 a.m.

In lieu of flowers donations will be distributed to Donna’s favorite charitable organizations.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll, and online condolences may be left for Donna’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Donna was born on January 24, 1934, a daughter of Leo and Hilda (Underberg) Stangl. She graduated from St. Joseph’s School in Dedham in 1948, and later St. Angela’s Academy in Carroll in 1952.

On January 24, 1952, Donna married her high school sweetheart, Dean Ankenbauer in Ogden, Iowa. They were married by Fr. Koester who grew up in Dedham, and was a former neighbor of the Stangl family. They raised three loving daughters in their Dedham home: Rae, Gae, and Kay.

Dean and Donna opened Donna’s Café on September 21, 1958. Many memories and stories abound regarding the café. They enjoyed making people laugh and making sure no one went away hungry. They worked hard and long hours as Donna’s was open seven days a week. Donna’s Café was sold in 1985 due to Dean’s health. Donna provided the very best of care for Dean until his passing on May 24, 1988.

After Dean’s death, Donna enrolled in the nursing program at DMACC in Carroll. She graduated from DMACC as a Registered Nurse. She was employed as an RN at the Village Clinic in Coon Rapids for 15 years. She retired from there in 2005 and then worked part time for McFarland Clinic in Carroll.

A life well lived sums up Donna’s life. She enjoyed bowling, golfing, traveling, cooking, baking and most of all her family and friends. She enjoyed helping others as well. She was a generous woman who loved people. In 1998 she was presented the Governor’s Volunteer Award. She was always proud to call Dedham home. She assisted with the Dedham Centennial, the Dedham, Quasquicentennial, and the St. Joseph Centennial books. She belonged to the St. Joseph Parish and guild, Legion Auxiliary, and was a lifetime member of the Dedham Booster Club.

Most of all Donna loved her family. She truly believed they were all perfect, even though they knew they weren’t. One of her favorite sayings was “I love my girls”. She will be dearly missed by many but she left us with many cherished memories.

Left to celebrate her life are her daughters, Rae (Dan) Halterman of Lake View, Gae (Ric) Hilgenberg of Avoca, and Kay (Steven) Volman of Grand Junction, CO. Nine grandchildren: Josh (Reanna), Zach (Nicki), Nat (Jennifer Diggers), Daniel (Holly Nicely) Halterman, Travis (Kim), Trevor (Tia), Tyler (Brooke) Hilgenberg, Tiffany (Matt) Fatka, and Lukas Volman; 19 great-grandchildren, three great-great-grandchildren; two sisters: Linda (Harlan) Sedivey of Omaha, and Marilyn Stangl (Frank Matulich) of Bellevue, WA. Two sisters-in-law: Judy Ankenbauer of Dedham, and Diane (Ray) Kitt of Dedham; a brother-in-law: Harry (Betty) Ankenbauer of Milford, MI, as well as many nieces, nephews, and other extended relatives.

Donna was preceded in death by her husband Dean, parents, Leo and Hilda Stangl; brothers: Anthony (infancy), Billy Lee (infancy), Robert (Rosie) Stangl; parents-in-law: Bernard and Freda Ankenbauer; brothers-in-law and sisters-in-law: Doug (Cleo) Ankenbauer, Robert Ankenbauer, Linda (Lloyd) Robinson.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Tribute Wall

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Donna was one super lady!! Will never forget all the memories of her at Donna’s Cafe with Dean. She treated us all as “ her kids.”What a wonderful pillar of the Dedham community. She will be missed.

Larry & Anne Heithoff – July 04 2024 at 2:21 PM

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So sorry to hear of Donna’s passing. She was a wonderful woman with a huge heart. My first job was waitressing at Donna’s Cafe! I have such fond memories growing up with their cafe being a staple in the Dedham community. Everyone knew Donna and Dean! Prayers for Donna’s family and may you find peace knowing she and Dean are together again.

Kris (Heman) Gross – July 05 2024 at 2:50 PM

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So sorry to hear of your mother passing away Gae and family. It’s so hard to loose your mother at any age. May she rest in peace. 🩷

Bev Vonnahme – July 05 2024 at 6:29 PM

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I’m so saddened about Donna’s passing. She was such a special lady. I have so many fond memories over the years. From the time I would get to go with you Gae to your house for my flower girl dress fittings for your and Ric’s wedding all the way up to as of late. The times spent at the Cafe, and the bags of candy your dad would send home with us, oh boy! And when your mom moved into Brad and my apartment complex when she was in nursing school. She was the bright light in any room she walked through and will truly be missed by so many. Thinking of you all during this most difficult time. Penny and Brad

Penny Kerns – July 05 2024 at 8:32 PM

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Our deepest sympathy to all the family. May God grant you peace at this time. May your memories be everlasting. Mike & Jan Boes

Mike & Jan Boes – July 06 2024 at 2:02 PM

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