Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

David J. Gehling, 70, of rural Wall Lake, died unexpectedly at home Sunday morning, November 6, 2016.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m. on Thursday, November 10, 2016 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Wall Lake. Inurnment will be at 1 p.m. on Friday, at the Wall Lake Cemetery, near Wall Lake.

Visitation will begin with a public Rosary at 3:30 p.m. on Wednesday, at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Wall Lake. Visitation will resume after the Rosary, and continue until the time of the Christian Wake Service which will be held at 6:30 p.m.

Visitation will begin at 9:30 a.m. on Thursday morning at the church, and continue until the time of the funeral mass.

Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll, and online condolences may be left for David’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Born on April 16, 1946 in Carroll, David John was the son of William and Agnes (Staiert) Gehling. He graduated from Kuemper Catholic High School with the class of 1964. David served his country in the United States Army from 1965 to 1967. He then returned home and began farming.

On February 9, 1974 he was united in marriage to Eileen Ludwig at St. Ann’s Catholic Church in Vail. Following their marriage the couple farmed southwest of Wall Lake. David enjoyed caring for his livestock and flowerbeds, and most of all spending time as a family. He was a member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Wall Lake.

Left to cherish David’s memory is his wife of over 42 years, Eileen Gehling of rural Wall Lake. Their three children: Nick (Kim) Gehling of Geneseo, IL, Sara (Josh) Hobson of Eldora, and Chris (Liz) Gehling of Vail; seven grandchildren: Jacoby Hobson, Jack Gehling, Max Gehling, Jada Hobson, Hallice Gehling, Jentry Hobson, and Jett Hobson; his siblings: Dorothy Hoffman of Dedham, Marceal (John) Wittry of Breda, Alitta Lansink of Odebolt, Larry (Mary Lou) Gehling of Westside, William Gehling, Jr. of Carroll, Phil (Jayne) Gehling of Westside, and sister in-law Lenore Gehling of Elkhart.

David was preceded in death by his parents, and two brothers: Arthur in infancy, and Raymond in 1994.

Remember Dave as he lived his life, he loved farming and working alongside his family. He had a passion for raising livestock, and was a man of few words. He engrained in his children a strong work ethic through his example.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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JUSTIN, DAVID, & CINDY WEBER purchased the Peaceful White Lilies Basket for the family of David Gehling.

JUSTIN, DAVID, & CINDY WEBER – November 08 2016 at 1:35 PM

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Country Basket Blooms was purchased for the family of David Gehling.

Comment #20873802 – November 10 2016 at 9:59 AM

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Eileen and family--sorry to hear of Dave's sudden passing. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Craig and Deb Ragaller Family

Craig Ragaller – November 10 2016 at 8:51 AM

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Medium Dish Garden was purchased for the family of David Gehling.

Comment #20872982 – November 10 2016 at 7:28 AM

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Eileen, I was so sorry to hear about David's death. Yes, my memory of him is that he was a man of few words but he seemed to have that sparkle in his eyes. I am sure you will miss him dearly. Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family! Lois (Loeffelholz) Kelley

Lois Kelley – November 09 2016 at 5:14 PM

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