Clarence “Curly” Menke

12/16/1921 –
02/02/2017

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Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Clarence J. Menke (Curly), celebrated his 95th birthday in December in Arizona with his family. He passed away on February 2, 2017 with a fervent love for God, his family and life.

A funeral mass will be held at St. Lawrence Catholic Church in Carroll on Friday, May 26th, at 11:00 A.M. The Celebrant will be Fr. Craig Collison. Music will be by Kate Cuddy, Sherry Loughran, Mike Pipich and the St. Lawrence Choir. Lectors for the funeral mass will be, John Pollpeter and John Darveaux. Gift Bearers will be: Jill Roberts, Brian Roberts, Stella Roberts, Addison Roberts and Kevin Pipich. Eucharistic Ministers will be: Rita Allen, Jane Pipich, and Lyn Stuntz. Honorary casket bearers will be: Ryan Potthoff, Neil Dentlinger, Pete Potthoff, Adam Pipich, Larry Pollpeter, John Pollpeter, and Dennis Menke. Burial will be in Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Carroll with military honors conducted by the Carroll American Legion.

Curly’s family will greet friends one hour prior to the mass and also invite friends and family to join them for a luncheon following the burial in the St. Lawrence Parish Collison Hall.

Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Curly’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Clarence was a one of a kind personality who worked hard and laughed often. On December 16, 1921, he was born in Pilot Grove, Iowa to Al and Rose (Dingman) Menke at a whopping 11.5 lbs. He graduated from St. Mary’s Catholic School in West Point, Iowa. To help make ends meet during the great depression, as an industrious “curly”-haired boy, he milked cows, delivered milk and papers, raised honey bees and pigeons, worked at an oil station, helped his dad wire houses, and lent a hand on his grandpa’s farm. As an 18-year-old, he worked as a carpenter in the Burlington, Iowa ordnance (ammunitions) plant and was drafted into the army. He went to Officer’s Candidate School and was appointed 2nd Lt. in Field Artillery. He attained rank of Captain after leading a company of 230 men onto Omaha Beach, Normandy, on June 7, 1944 (D-Day+1). He carried a letter from General Eisenhower that gave him instructions to communicate to the battalion.

After being discharged from the army, Curly earned an electrical engineering degree in three and one-half years from Iowa State University. Upon graduation, he began his 37-year career at Iowa Public Service/Mid America as an electrical engineer and retired as the company’s Southwest District Operations Manager.
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Louise H. Fraune of Ft. Madison, Iowa first met Curly when he was juggling oranges and telling jokes at the local dance hall. September 6, 1947 was the beginning of their festive 61-year marriage. Their ventures included numerous social gatherings, a large number of lively family reunions and weddings in the West Point/ Ft. Madison area, and exciting journeys to a variety of states as well as to Europe, including a Rome tour with 3rd cousin Bishop Maurice Dingman.

Curly enjoyed playing an enthusiastic game of bridge or euchre, hunting with his favorite dog, fishing with family, cruising his golf cart down the street to play his usual rounds of golf, and frequently touring Swan Lake to see the local wildlife. He also loved working on daily crossword puzzles, watching his beloved St Louis Cardinals, cheering (and yelling) the Cubs to victory, puttering around the yard, or fixing something using his creative knack for engineering.

Curly was an active member of the Chamber of Commerce, Lions, Rotary, VFW, American Legion and Knights of Columbus. He was president and founder of Audubon Industrial Development Corp., and designer and founder of the Audubon County Greenbrier Club.

Curly is survived by his three daughters and sons-in-law: Janet Darveaux of Scottsdale, AZ; Joan and Pete Potthoff of Glendale, AZ; Jane and Mike Pipich of Highlands Ranch, CO; and Neil Dentlinger of Maple Grove, MN. He dearly loved his grandchildren: John Darveaux of Scottsdale, AZ; Jill (Potthoff) Roberts and her husband, Brian, of Scottsdale, AZ; Ryan Potthoff and his wife, Sunghiun, of NY, NY; Adam Pipich and Kevin Pipich of Highlands Ranch, CO. His great-granddaughters, Stella and Addison Roberts, always brought a twinkle to his eye and put a smile on his face. Many fond memories were shared with his surviving brother, Ralph Menke, and wife, Lucille; sisters-in-law: Dorothy Menke and Helen Loving; and in-laws, Robert and Rosie Fraune. He was preceded in death by his beloved family: his loving wife, Louise; son, Ron; and daughter, Karen (Menke) Dentlinger; his parents; 2 brothers: Linus Menke and Richard Menke; 4 sisters: Mary Louise Fedler, Margaret Pollpeter, Sr. Rose Menke, Imelda Eckermann; 7 sisters-in-law; and 9 brothers-in-law.

Curly was a loving husband, father, father-in-law, grandfather, great-grandfather, brother, uncle, and fun-loving character who had a great wit about him as well as a comedic answer for nearly everything in life. He had the ability to entertain people and to be entertained by others just as often. He is dearly loved and is greatly missed.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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