Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Clara Clementine Friedman, 88 of Carroll, died Thursday, June 4, 2015 at St. Anthony Nursing Home in Carroll.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m. Friday, June 12, 2015 at St. Lawrence Catholic Church in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Fr. Timothy Schott. Music will be by Kate Cuddy and the St. Lawrence Choir. Clara’s son-in-law, Scott DeKok, will sing Ave Maria. Lectors will be Beverly Bargren and Laurel Cakinberk. Gift Bearers will be: Meghan Geason, Emily Friedman, and Luke Friedman. Eucharistic Ministers will be Joni Badding, Eilin Friedman, and Bob Friedman. Casket Bearers will be: Rachel Kurtz, Nick Friedman, Todd Friedman, Noah DeKok, Claire Kramer, Emma Price, Nathan Price, and Grace Friedman. Burial will be in Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Carroll.

Friends may call at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll after 3:30 p.m. on Thursday, where there will be a rosary at 4 p.m. and a Christian Wake Service at 6 p.m. by St. Lawrence Parish.

The casket will be moved to St. Lawrence Church at 9 a.m. on Friday where visitation will resume until time of the funeral mass.

Memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for Kuemper Catholic Schools or Habitat for Humanity.

Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll, and online condolences may be left for Clara’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Born on January 7, 1927 at Arcadia, Iowa, Clara was the daughter of Joseph and Anna (Hoelscher) Dentlinger. Clara spent her younger years in the Arcadia area and attended St. John School.

On June 15, 1948, she was united in marriage to Elmer Friedman at St. John Catholic Church in Arcadia. Following their marriage the couple resided in the Carroll community where they were co-owners of the Coast-to-Coast hardware store for 42 years. Clara and Elmer were happily married almost 52 years before his passing on April 29, 2000.

Clara was a devoted homemaker and housewife, raising her nine children over many years. She enjoyed fishing, the Chicago Cubs, and tending to her small flower and vegetable garden. Clara was a serene, patient, kind, and nonjudgmental person. ‘Content’ is the word we think of when remembering our beautiful mother. She never liked to draw attention to herself. Even on her last conscious days, the caretakers at St. Anthony told us she complained of no pain.

Clara had a deep devotion to her faith and was an active parishioner over the years at St. Lawrence Parish, where she served in various capacities, including parish ladies guild and Eucharistic Minister.

Clara is survived by her children: Beverly (Wayne) Bargren of Altamonte Springs, FL, Jan Friedman (John Kramer) of Iowa City, Deb (Scott) DeKok of Wauwatosa, WI, Bob (Peggy) Friedman of Johnston, Rick (Carol) Friedman of Denver, CO, Pat Friedman of Rancho Bernardo, CA, Lori (Phil) Price of Encinitas, CA, and Greg (Eilin) Friedman of Rancho Bernardo, CA; 16 grandchildren; 7 great-grandchildren; her siblings: Lawrence (Arlene) Dentlinger of Arcadia, Al (Izzie) Dentlinger of Westside, and Joni Badding of Carroll; her sister-in-laws and brother-in-laws: Elaine Dentlinger of Carroll, Mildred Schreck of Carroll, Sister Maria Friedman, FSPA of Lacrosse, WI, Wilma (Cletus) Irlbeck of Omaha, NE, Phyllis Friedman of Carroll, and Doris (Pat) Riordan of Rock Hill, SC; as well as other extended relatives.

Clara was preceded in death by her parents; her husband Elmer; her son Fred Friedman; her brother Elmer Dentlinger; and her sisters: Martha Daniel, Ruth Schreck, and a sister Mary in infancy.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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My deepest sympathy to all the Friedman family. What a beloved, beautiful,compassionate woman. I am Bev's classmate, and I have such fond memories of her warm greetings and visits. The next time that I sing, "they'll know we are Christians by our love...", I will think of your Mother. Barb Mungon Boes

barb boes – June 08 2015 at 10:26 PM

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My deepest condolences Denny O'Grady

Denny O’Grady – June 10 2015 at 9:47 AM

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