Bernard “Sonny” Irlbeck

03/04/1931 –
09/23/2020

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Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Bernard Irlbeck (Sonny), age 89 of Templeton, died Wednesday, September 23, 2020 at Journey Senior Services in Carroll.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m. Monday, September 28, 2020 at Sacred Heart Catholic Church in Templeton. The celebrant will be Fr. Steve Brodersen. Music will be by Jeanne Kerkhoff. Soloist will be JoAnn Beane. Lectors will be Dave Ramsey and Deb Hansen. Eucharistic Minister will be Joea Kemper. Honorary Casketbearers will be Nicole Behrens, Andrew Irlbeck, Hannah Irlbeck, Ethan Irlbeck, Jesi Wiltse, Stephanie Hein, Chase Musick, Lindy Thomas, Amanda Grey, Emily Mosman, Samantha Duane, Matt Wiltse, Lauren Irlbeck, Amanda Gaskin, Christina Haggerty, and Brook Wiebers. Casketbearers will be Bret Wiltse, Jason Wiltse, Jake Behrens, Alex Irlbeck, Dalton Hawbaker, and Jesse Janssen. Burial will be in the parish cemetery with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

There will be no public visitation at the church prior to the funeral mass on Monday morning. Those in attendance will be required to wear a mask.
Visitation will be held from 3 to 5 p.m. on Sunday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll. Those in attendance are required to wear a mask, and abide by all COVID-19 Guidelines.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll, and online condolences may be left for Sonny’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Bernard, the son of Alphonse and Margaret (Underberg) Irlbeck, was born on March 4, 1931 on a farm near Templeton, Iowa. The oldest of ten siblings he attended country school, and later attended school in Dedham. He helped with farming, corn shelling, trucking, and later worked for Pape Implement. In July 1952 he was drafted into service of his country, and was honorably discharged in July of 1954.

On August 3, 1954 he was married to Helen Schwabe at St. Bernard’s Catholic Church in Breda. Sonny returned to work at Pape Implement and the couple lived in Templeton. In 1957 the couple moved to Westside, and began farming. They later moved to Vail and the Deloit area. In 1969 they returned to a farm near Templeton. The couple lived there raising their family of 8 children until 1995 when they moved to their home in Templeton.

Over the years Sonny farmed as well as operated a custom corn sheller for 35 years. Sonny helped with many community projects, and collected many things. He enjoyed cards, Grumpy’s Garage, and being with his children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren. He was a member of Sacred Heart Parish, Templeton Knights of Columbus, and the Dedham American Legion.

Sonny is survived by his wife Helen of Templeton, and his children: Nancy Irlbeck Musick (Steve) of Moscow, Idaho, Mary Grundmeier (John) of Carroll; Robert Irlbeck (Pam) of Templeton, Lois Behrens (John) Roselle, Kathy Mosman (Donn) of Raymore, Missouri, Duane Irlbeck (Angela) of Templeton, and Glen Irlbeck (Anne) of Templeton; 22 grandchildren; 31 great-grandchildren. Also surviving are his siblings: Jerome, LeRoy (Elaine), Tom (Dawn), Fred (Karen), and Eugene (Mary Jo); sisters-in-law: Marian Irlbeck, and Pat Irlbeck, as well as many nieces, nephews, and other extended relatives.

Sonny was preceded in death by his daughter Betty Lou Irlbeck; a grandson Johnny Behrens; his parents, Alphonse and Margaret Irlbeck; brothers: Raymond, John and James; sister: Mary Ann Irlmeier, as well as a sister in infancy; parents-in-law: Ben and Elizabeth Schwabe; brother-in-law: Paul Schwabe, and sister-in-law: Marie Schumacher.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this hard time. Sonny was a great guy and left this world a much better place. His legacy will continue through his family and friends. Lue Baker

Lue Baker – September 24 2020 at 6:06 PM

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Our condolences to Sonny's family. We will always have a smile when remembering 'Grumpy". Many years ago he would bring his corn shelling crew into the Wagon Wheel in Gray for lunch. He later became a great friend when we had our business in Templeton. He always made sure everyone saw his tractor collection. A special person for sure. RIP dear Sonny. Doug and Jan Hilsabeck

Jan Hilsabeck – September 25 2020 at 8:10 PM

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I enjoyed visiting with Sonny at the lunch table whenever I visited my dad at Journey Senior Services. He was so fun to talk to. I am so very sorry for your loss. Rest In Peace, Sonny.

Christy Rickers – September 26 2020 at 12:10 AM

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Thoughts to all of you for your loss... my memories of Sonny at The Still always brings a smile and the many times he tugged on my apron strings hoping to see if he could get it loose (which he managed to do on one occasion)! Cherish all the memories!

sherry – September 26 2020 at 11:28 AM

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I hauled a mountain of cobs from that John deere shelled and heard a truck load of stories from Sonny Ron Juergens

Ron Juergens – September 26 2020 at 4:09 PM

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