Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Bernard Wessel, age 75, of Arcadia, Iowa, died Friday, September 11, 2009, at his residence in Arcadia of an apparent heart condition. Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 1:30 P.M., Tuesday, September 15, 2009 at St. John Church in Arcadia. The Celebrant will be Father Joe Dillinger. Con-celebrants will be Father Jack Frerker and Father Richard Remmes. Lector will be Pat Vogl. Gift Bearers will be Tony and Barb Vogl. Mass Servers will be Ashley and Kelsey Blum. Eucharistic Minister will be Richard Ricke. The Arcadia American Legion, Ehlers-Gerken Post # 694 will form an honor guard for the funeral mass. Honorary Pallbearers will be Butch Schmitz, Randy Beyer, Bob Erps, and Denny Staiert. Casket Bearers will be Wayne Eich, Steve Koch, Ed Vogl, Tony Vogl, Tim Vogl, Ron Sundrup and Jim Wadkins. Burial with military honors by the Arcadia American Legion will be at St. John Cemetery in Arcadia. Friends may call at the Sharp Funeral Home in Breda after 5 P.M. Monday where there will be a Christian Wake Service at 7 P.M. by St. John Parish.
Mr. Wessel was born on January 9, 1934, at Bartelso, Illinois, the son of August and Eugenia (Beer) Wessel. Benny spent his early years in Bartelso where he attended grade school before graduating with the Class of 1952 from Aviston High School. Following high school he enlisted in the United States Army and served in Germany at the end of the Korean War before his honorable discharge in March of 1956. On June 20, 1959, Bernard was married to Nancy Frerker at St. Mary Catholic Church in Carlyle, Illinois. The couple moved to Arcadia in 1969 and spent their entire lifetime there. Benny worked for Ron Sundrup Trucking for nearly 30 years until his retirement in 1997. He served on the Arcadia Fire Department where he was Fire Chief for two years. Benny had a great sense of humor and enjoyed reading, playing cards, St. Louis Cardinal’s baseball, and spending time with his family. Benny was a member of the Arcadia American Legion and St. John Parish.
Survivors include his wife, Nancy Wessel of Arcadia, his children, Marty Wessel of Palestine, Texas, and Dona Wadkins and her husband Jim of Centralia, Illinois; three grandchildren, Andrew, Ryan, and Jessica; two sisters, Sister Francis Wessel SSND of Springfield, Missouri, and Evelyn Land of Boston, Mass; brothers-in-law and sisters-in-law, Fr. Jack Frerker of Olympia, Wash, Dick Frerker and his wife Pat of Germantown, Illinois, and Lynda Frerker of Long Beach, California, step brothers-in-law and step sisters-in-law, Jim Danehy and his wife Marge of Illinois, Mary Berndsen and her husband Bob of Illinios, and Peg Hellige and her husband Rich of Illinois. He was preceded in death by his parents.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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We enjoyed his visits when he stopped in our area. He will be greatly missed.

Helen & Alfred Beckmann – September 14 2009 at 10:14 AM

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We are so sorry for your loss.

Pam & Kevin Gilmore – September 12 2009 at 3:01 PM

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