Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Arlene Wolterman, age 87, of Carroll, Iowa, died August 11, 2023, at St. Anthony Nursing Home of Carroll, Iowa surrounded by her family after a long illness.

Private services will be held on Tuesday, August 15, 2023 at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with Fr. Patrick Behm officiating. Casket Bearers will be Cody Carlson, Tyler Wolterman, Justin Harris, Brody Hagemann, Lynn Wenck, and Brian Koster. Burial will be in Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Carroll.

A public visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Monday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m., led by the Carroll Catholic Daughters of the Americas.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Arlene’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Arlene Barbara Thelen was born January 22, 1936 to Raymond and Barbara (Snyder) Thelen of Glidden, Iowa. She grew up on the family farm with her brother and four sisters and graduated from Glidden High School in 1954. On October 19, 1957, Arlene married Raphael “Ray” Wolterman at the Fort Chaffee, Arkansas base chapel. They made their home in Carroll, Iowa where they bought Kingston Distributing Co. and operated it as Wolterman Distributing Co. They were blessed with five children who have fond memories growing up working in the family business which distributed Sealtest, Meadow Gold, Kemps and Wells Blue Bunny ice cream. In addition to doing the bookwork for Wolterman Distributing Co., Arlene also worked at H & R Block for over thirty years and Swan Lake State Park. In their free time, Arlene and Ray enjoyed dancing, traveling, and frequent family vacations to Branson, Missouri and Lake Okoboji.

Arlene, a devout Catholic, was an active member of Holy Spirit Parish and the Carroll Catholic Daughters of the Americas. She enjoyed volunteering at the St. Anthony Auxiliary Gift and Coffee Shop and for the RSVP program. She was an avid bowler and thoroughly enjoyed her time spent at State Bowling in Fort Dodge with her team. She also enjoyed golfing, international travel, fishing with Zola, bingo and of course, frequenting the casinos.

Left to cherish her memory are her children, Peggy Carlson of Mapleton, Daryl Wolterman of Omaha, Nebraska, Beth (Lynn) Wenck of Lidderdale, Todd (Terri) Wolterman of Omaha, Nebraska and Craig (Courtney) Wolterman of Ankeny; 10 grandchildren and 16 great-grandchildren; two sisters; Jan (Ed) Olson of Randolph, Kansas and Phyllis (Larry) Broich of Leon and her sister-in-law, Lucy Wolterman of Jefferson.

Arlene was preceded in death by her husband, Ray in 1998; parents, Ray and Barbara Thelen, parents-in-law, AJ and Elizabeth Wolterman; a brother, Larry; and sisters, Shirley, Darlene (“Dee”) and Betty.

Arlene will be missed by many other family and friends.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Tribute Wall

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May she rest in peace. Arlene was a prefect example of peacefulness. Loved her smile. May the family find peace thru their faith. Cecelia Thelen

Cecelia Thelen – August 12 2023 at 8:53 PM

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Arlene was like a second Mom to me growing up. I loved sleeping over but we always got yelled at to get to sleep!! Very fond memories! ❤️💔

Kay Birkett Peters – August 13 2023 at 12:50 AM

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The Rudell and Ruth Snyder family give your family our deepest sympathy for the loss of your wonderful mother. We have lots of good memories with your family.

Jeanie Running – August 14 2023 at 5:32 PM

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Deepest sympathies to Arlene’s family. I bowled with her for many years & always had a good time, whether it was league or city tournament. Wonderful memories of her—rest in peace Arlene

Lori Mohr Kooima – August 12 2023 at 10:43 PM

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Lit a candle in memory of Arlene Wolterman

Melanie Frantz – August 12 2023 at 11:12 PM

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