Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Arlene Dentlinger, 96 of Arcadia, died Sunday, September 18, 2022, at St. Anthony Nursing Home in Carroll.
Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 23, 2022, at St. John Catholic Church in Arcadia. The Celebrant will be Fr. Terry Roder. Concelebrant will be Fr. Richard Remmes. Music will be by Sharon Bierl and the St. John Choir. Lectors for the Funeral Mass will be Diane Dentlinger, Cate Hegstrom, and Lola Blaser. Gift Bearers will be Maria Promes, Amy Dentlinger, and Kreighton Liechti. Eucharistic Minister will be Sister Maria Friedman. Casket Bearers will be Dave Dentlinger, Roger Dentlinger, Neil Dentlinger, Craig Dentlinger, Loren Dentlinger, Joel Dentlinger, Lee Dentlinger, Russ Hegstrom, Al Blaser, and Carey Promes. Burial will be in St. John Cemetery in Arcadia.
Visitation will be from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll where the rosary will be recited at 7 p.m. There will be no additional visitation on Friday at the church.
Memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for St. Anthony Nursing Home or Kuemper Catholic Schools.
Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Arlene’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.
Born on March 9, 1926 in Roselle to William and Helen (Soppe) Friedman, Arlene grew up in Roselle and attended Holy Angels School in Roselle through 8th grade. During her school years she worked at her dad’s hardware store in Roselle. Prior to her marriage she worked at Pepsi Cola Bottling Company in Carroll.

On February 12, 1947, Arlene was united in marriage to Lawrence Dentlinger at Holy Angels Catholic Church in Roselle. To this union 11 children were born. While living on the farm, she was an homemaker. Later in her married life she worked as a home health aide for several years at Carroll Area Nursing Services. In 1993 they retired and moved into Arcadia.

Arlene enjoyed fishing, playing cards and games, going to casinos with her sisters and friends and attending a multitude of events involving children and grandchildren. She also enjoyed gardening and was known for her sewing, cooking, and baking abilities. She was active in her church and served as a Eucharistic minister.

Left to celebrate Arlene’s life are her children: Dave (Deanne) Dentlinger of Arcadia, Diane Dentlinger of Des Moines, Roger (Sue) Dentlinger of Marcus, Cate (Russ) Hegstrom of Clive, Neil Dentlinger of Maple Grove, MN, Craig (Debbie) Dentlinger of West Des Moines, Loren (Kim) Dentlinger of Carroll, Lola (Al) Blaser of DeWitt, Joel (Sheila) Dentlinger of Arcadia, Lee (Sharon) Dentlinger of New Virginia, Maria (Carey) Promes of Carroll; 30 grandchildren; 41 great grandchildren; her sisters Mildred Schreck of Omaha; Sister Maria Friedman, La Crosse, WI; and Wilma Irlbeck of Omaha; her sisters in law Izzie Dentlinger of Denison, Joni Badding of Carroll and Doris Riordan in Rock Hill, SC, as well as many other extended relatives.

Arlene is preceded in death by her spouse Lawrence, her parents William and Helen Friedman, step-father Joseph Lengeling, a daughter in law Karen (Menke) Dentlinger, her siblings and in-laws Elmer (Clara) Friedman, Dennis Friedman, Lenore (Del) Lengeling, Cyril (Phyllis) Friedman, Al “Ollie” Dentlinger, Doug Schreck, Clete Irlbeck, Bob Badding, Elmer (Elaine) Dentlinger, Ruth (Andy) Schreck; Martha (Everett) Daniel, and two brothers, Marvin and Alvin, in infancy.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Tribute Wall

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I worked with Arlene many years ago. She was great to work with. My sympathy to the family. Kathy Irlbeck

Kathy Irlbeck – September 19 2022 at 4:58 PM

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Our sincere sympathy to the Dentlinger family. what a precious mother

Bruce & Mae Vonnahme – September 19 2022 at 5:32 PM

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I send my condolences to your family. I always enjoyed my conversations with your mother.

Danny Oswald – September 20 2022 at 12:03 PM

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My sympathy to the Dentlinger family. Such a sweet mother, grandmother etc. . Arlene was a wonderful role model in our parish. Always there to help and show us all how to work hard and contribute to the needs of St John’s. She will truly be missed by her family and friends. May she Rest In Peace. 🙏

Bev Vonnahme – September 20 2022 at 12:09 PM

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WHAT A WONDERFUL MOTHER! SURE SHE WILL BE MISSED. THINKING OF THE DENTLINGER FAMILY. MAY SHE REST IN PEACE

BRUCE & MAE VONNAHME – September 20 2022 at 5:33 PM

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