Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Arby Neppel, age 91, of Carroll, Iowa, died Sunday, September 20, 2009, at the Carroll Health Center Nursing Home in Carroll.
Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10 A.M., Friday, September 25, 2009, at St. Lawrence Church in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Father Timothy Schott. Lectors will be granddaughters, Jennifer Peebler, Stephanie Tague, and Kimberly Lally. Gift Bearers will be granddaughters, Elanna Neppel and Mackenzie Needham and great grandson, Alex Jungers. Eucharistic Ministers will be Dan Lally, Katie Lally, and Arlene Dalhoff. Honorary Pallbearers will be granddaughters, Christine Finnegan, Kelly Jungers, Carla Nichols, Karen Koster, and Jessica Needham. Casket Bearers will be grandsons, Jeffery Needham, Joshua Little, Robert Lally, James Lally, Timothy Neppel, Christopher Neppel, Jonathan Neppel, Theodore Lange III, Taylor Lange, Isaac Neppel, and Joel Neppel. Burial will be at Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Carroll.
Friends may call at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll after 3:30 P.M. Thursday. A rosary will be prayed at 4 P.M. Thursday by the Carroll Knights of Columbus. There will be a Christian wake service at 7 P.M. Thursday by St. Lawrence Parish.
Mr. Neppel was born on January 22, 1918, at Willey, Iowa, the son of Maximillian and Rose (Werner) Neppel. He spent his younger years in the Willey community and attended country school and St. Mary School. On June 20, 1950, he was married to Helen M. Lutwitze at Sacred Heart Church in Templeton with Father Otto Dentlinger officiating. The couple farmed in the Carroll, Lidderdale, and Roselle communities until 1978 when they moved to Carroll. In addition to farming Mr. Neppel was employed as a field man for the ASCS Office in Carroll and in later years by Farm Service of Roselle. He was a member of St. Lawrence Parish, Carroll County Farm Bureau, Honorary Life Member of the Knights of Columbus, and volunteered at the same day surgery waiting room at St. Anthony Regional Hospital. Arby enjoyed his family, playing cards, and walking.
Survivors include his children, Jim Neppel and his wife Joan of Vail, Ruth Ann Lally and her husband Dan of Vail, Joleen Little and her husband Ken of Rindge, New Hampshire, Rosalyn Needham of Omaha, Nebr., Teresa Lange and her husband Ted II of South Riding, Virginia, and Jerome Neppel and his wife Brenda of Ames; twenty-one grandchildren; thirteen great grandchildren; his brother, Matt Neppel of Carroll; sisters, Isabelle Feld of Carroll, Agnes Stoolman of Carroll, and Arlene Dalhoff of Carroll; and sisters-in-law, Jean Neppel of Iowa City, and Orsola Neppel of Jackson, New Jersey. He was preceded in death by his wife, Helen Neppel, in July 1996; his parents; and two brothers, Ralph and Melvin Neppel.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Dad, We will miss your quick smile and easy laugh. Mom's been missing you, give her a hug for all of us. Ken

Ken Little – September 23 2009 at 6:21 PM

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