Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Larry Irlbeck, 76, of Westside, IA died peacefully, Wednesday July 18, 2018 at Mayo Clinic, Methodist Hospital in Rochester, Minnesota, surrounded by his family, following a yearlong battle with lymphoma cancer.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Tuesday, July 24, 2018 at St. John’s Catholic Church in Arcadia. The Celebrant will be Fr. Mark Stoll. Music will be by Sharon Bierl and the St. John’s Choir. Lectors will be Susie Irlbeck and Joni Schramm. Gift Bearers will be Larry’s grandchildren. Eucharistic Ministers will be Susie and Bob Irlbeck and Beth Morris. Casket Bearers will be nephews: Jesse Irlbeck, Mike Irlbeck, Kevin Berg, Brian Berg, Jim Irlbeck, David Irlbeck, Doug Irlbeck, Daryl Irlbeck, and Allen Steinkamp. The Arcadia American Legion will form an honor guard for the funeral mass. Burial will be at a later date in St. John Cemetery in Arcadia.

Friends may call at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll after 4 p.m. on Monday where there will be a Christian Wake Service at 7 p.m. Additional visitation will be from 9-10 a.m. on Tuesday at the funeral home.

In lieu of flowers memorials may be given to the Gift of Life Transplant House in Rochester, Minnesota. Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Larry’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Lawrence Joseph Irlbeck, son of Albert and Elizabeth (Hoffman) Irlbeck, was born on July 8, 1942 in Carroll, Iowa. He attended St. John’s Catholic School and graduated from Kuemper Catholic High School in 1960. He then graduated from Universal Trade School and served in the United States Army and National Guard until he was honorably discharged. Larry worked at the Arcadia Cooperative, and began his proud career of farming. On September 17, 1966, Larry was united in marriage to the love of his life, Joyce Tigges, in Dedham, Iowa. The couple farmed in Westside, where they raised their 5 children.

Larry enjoyed farming, machinery auctions, restoring tractors, Ford trucks, playing cards, and socializing with his many friends. He was an entrepreneur with a work ethic that inspired those around him. He had a magnetic personality and never knew a stranger. His wittiness always found humor to make light of every situation. Even in his long battle with cancer, he would make the nurses and doctors laugh with his little sayings, “Larryisms”. It was said they would fight over who got to take care of him. His strength was admired by many as he was often told he was strong as an ox. He was persistent and a true fighter up to the end. Most of all, Larry, Patriarch of his family, cherished every moment with his three boys, twin girls, and seven grandchildren. His pride and joy was to see all five of his children graduate from college. He was their biggest cheerleader always encouraging them to pursue their dreams. Larry was a member of St. John’s Parish, the Arcadia American Legion, Carroll County Pork Producers and served on the Arcadia Cooperative Board.

Larry is survived by his wife of nearly 52 years, Joyce of Westside; son Bob (Susie) of Centerville, MN, grandchildren Justin, Jacob (Torri), and Kayla; son Kevin (Jody) of Atlanta, GA, grandson, Hayden; son Dan (Teresa) of Westside, grandsons Alex and Ben; daughter Carla (Steve) Kuzynowski of Ankeny, grandson, Mitch; daughter Christi of West Des Moines; sister Marie (Gerald) Berg of Arcadia, brother, Alan (Sue) Irlbeck of Avoca; brothers-and sisters-in-law: Laverne Steinkamp, Linda Irlbeck, Laverne (Anna) Tigges, Marvin Tigges, Duane (Shirley) Tigges, Randy(Cathy) Tigges, Joni (Scott) Schramm; and many nephews, nieces and treasured friends.

Larry is preceded in death by his parents, Albert and Elizabeth; brothers: Edwin (Marijane) Irlbeck, and Elmer Irlbeck; and sisters: Alice Steinkamp and Lavon Irlbeck.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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We have you all in our thoughts and prayers. Roger and Arlene Hanson

Arlene Hanson – July 20 2018 at 2:01 PM

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Joyce, It was so nice to meet you when we came to Rochester to visit with my cousin, Joan Lynch and her husband, Pat. Our mutual connection with Dedham was so coincidental and truly a gift. We are so sorry to hear of your loss and will keep you in our prayers as you begin to cope with this reality. Know that Larry is part of you and every decision you make. He is proud of you and forever encouraging you. Love, Mary Jo (Mader) Franske, daughter of Mary Margaret (Schultes) Mader

Mary Jo Franske – July 23 2018 at 8:41 PM

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Emerald Garden Basket was purchased for the family of Larry Irlbeck.

Comment #26056904 – July 19 2018 at 4:07 PM

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Peaceful White Lilies Basket was purchased for the family of Larry Irlbeck.

Comment #26061643 – July 20 2018 at 1:27 PM

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GENERAL RENTAL / RANDY AND CATHY TIGGES FAMILY purchased the Crystal Cross Bouquet for the family of Larry Irlbeck.

GENERAL RENTAL / RANDY AND CATHY TIGGES FAMILY – July 21 2018 at 12:11 PM

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