Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Gary Lee Staples, 69, of Carroll passed away at his home on Sunday, August 24,2025, surrounded by family. Services will be held at 7:00 p.m. on Friday, August 29, 2025, at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with visitation from 5:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. Private family graveside services will be held in the Carroll City Cemetery at a later date.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home and online condolences may be left for Gary’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Gary was the son of Keith Staples and Yvonne (Jorgensen) Staples. On April 15, 1989, he married Pat (Lampe) Staples. Gary attended Wentworth Military Academy, Peru State College and years later DMACC.

Gary’s knowledge and love for cars lead him to opening Midtown Auto Glass. He loved restoring the old cars back to original quality and design. He may have cussed them once in a while but he rolled out beauties when they were finished. He did allow for some fun like swap meets and car shows occasionally. He always joked about the weekend when he wanted to work on his own stuff that wives threw their hubbies out of the house so they came to see what he was up to in the shop, coffee and newspaper in hand. He had hobbies like gardening and yard work or building some crazy yard art that people couldn’t resist. Always busy and never enough time in a day for him. We made one heck of a team on projects and disasters but most of the time I was always in the place he needed to be, how we laughed about that later in life. He was a good cook and only did dishes to get the creases in his hands clean. He was a good father and a good man. His two nicknames were Sammy Slammer and GarBear. I had a few more for him you know like “Honey” and “Sweetie” and we will leave it at that.

Gary is survived by his wife Pat Staples; two children Eric (Tasha) Staples and Trista (Jake) Kalkhoff; five grandchildren: Madi, Peyton, Alayna, Rikki and Elijah; one great grandson River; his brother John (Diane) Staples and their children: Kerri (Bill) Finner, Allie Staples, Brandon (Michaela) and Lennon Staples; a sister-in-law Lori Kunkel; brother-in-law law Tracy Hall; Aunts Marlene Walters and Virginia (Norbert) Stoberl; Uncles Darvin Jorgensen and Mick Schurer; and by many other family and many friends.

Gary was preceded in death by his parents, his sister Jacklin, Pat’s parents Lawrence and Ethel Lampe, his best friend Mike Schurer, his niece Linda Steffen, aunts and uncles, a few cousins, some in-laws (or outlaws), and his shop dog Jack. I would name them all but there isn’t enough paper. So let’s close this knowing that when the Bear said, “I love you!” it was as heartfelt as it could have been. You will never be forgotten!

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Our deepest Sympathy to the family of Gary, our hearts and our prayers with you all,we hope the love you have for Gary will outweigh the sorrow you are feeling today. Sending hugs and love to all the Family. Mary Ann & Danny Moore.

Mary Ann Moore – August 27 2025 at 2:20 PM

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my condolences to PAT and family. Gary was a great friend i have known since the early 80s when we first met at the Fairmont Neb swap meet. Gary was the type of friend that you knew how he felt on a subject and stood firmly behind his opinion. no gray area with Gary as it should be amongst friends and i respected him for that. i always looked forward to setting up next to Gary at the Greenfield swap not just to set up but it was a time to catch up with Gary and more recently Erick about what was going on with life and share some laughs that i will truly miss. thanks for the good times and memories Gary you will deeply missed as such a talented good friend. RIP Gary

Randy Hoover – August 27 2025 at 7:51 PM

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Gary was always for us kids when we need help our vechicle. I looked up to him has a uncle . I will never forget the ride in the truck. You will be dearly missed

Laura Arp – August 30 2025 at 5:15 PM

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Lit a candle in memory of Gary Staples

Susan Teter-Lord – August 27 2025 at 6:50 PM

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Pat and family, so sorry for your loss.

Susan Teter-Lord – August 27 2025 at 6:51 PM

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