Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Lola Mae (Oswald) Heim, age 93 (93 years, 5 months, 26 days), of Sioux Falls, South Dakota (formerly of Breda, Iowa) died on Tuesday, April 25, 2023, at the Avera Dougherty Hospice House in Sioux Falls, South Dakota.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Wednesday, May 3, 2023, at St. Bernard’s Catholic Church in Breda. The Celebrant will be Father Terry Roder with Deacon Rick Larson assisting. Music will be by Marilyn Hundling and the St. Bernard’s Choir. Lectors will be Mae Vonnahme and Pat Vogl. Gift Bearers will be Mikeal Larson and Tony Heim. Eucharistic Ministers will be Christina Heim and Marilyn Fleming. Casket Bearers will be Andrew Martin, Tom Heim, Tony Heim, Casey Clausen, Nick Larson, and Jon Heim. Burial will be at St. Bernard’s Cemetery in Breda.

Friends may call at St. Bernard’s Church in Breda after 5:00 p.m. Tuesday where there will be a Christian Wake service at 7 p.m. Additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. on Wednesday at the church. Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home and online condolences may be left for Lola’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Lola was born on November 29, 1929, at home in Carroll County, Iowa, to Peter and Teresa (Goecke) Oswald. She spent her younger years in the Arcadia and Breda communities.

She was married to Cletus Heim on September 19, 1950, at St. Bernard Church in Breda. Lola lived with Cletus’s parents while he was in the Army in South Korea. Lola and Cletus farmed for about 4 years in Carroll County and then moved to Cherokee, IA, in 1959, the beginning of Cletus’s job with Walnut Grove Feed Company. Throughout the next approximately 30 years with Walnut Grove Feed Company, they lived in Iowa, South Dakota, Minnesota, and Nebraska. After her children had grown, she had numerous jobs with a couple of favorites, the first being a home health care aide helping disabled and elderly in their homes and the other serving food, with complimentary bantering, to the college students at Briar Cliff College. After retirement, the couple moved back to Breda in 2002. Cletus passed away on July 2, 2004. Lola moved back to Sioux Falls in 2007.

Lola was a member of St. Theresa Parish in Sioux Falls at the time of her passing. During her lifetime she was a member of fourteen different parishes. Lola made over 3,000 chain and cord rosaries which she donated to many missions. She enjoyed dancing, playing cards, crocheting, and knitting, an immaculate home, and extensive decorating, baking, and cooking for her family during the holidays. Her grandchildren were her greatest gifts and she never missed wishing each one a Happy Birthday.

She is survived by her children, Mary Jo (Butch) Martin of Sioux Falls, S.D., Bill (Kathie) Heim of Sioux Falls, S.D., Cristy (Rick) Larson of Central City, N.E., and Scott (Paula) Heim of Sioux Falls, S.D. and her son-in-law, Curt Clausen, of Grand Island N.E. She is also survived by 20 grandchildren; 48 great grandchildren; sisters Gladys Nieland of Harlan, I.A., and Margaret (Robert) Tigges of Carroll, I.A.; brothers Leon (Florence) Oswald of Carroll, I.A., and Art (Virginia) Oswald of North Platte, N.E. Her godchildren, Mikeal Larson, Tony Heim, Sister Linda Reicks, Marilyn Vonnahme, Barb Weinzetl, and Jill Hendrick.

She is preceded in death by her husband, Clete, her children Doug Heim and Terrie Clausen and her sisters Rita Reicks, Maizie Soyer, Dorothy Vogl, her brothers Paul, Charlie, Bill, and Lou Oswald, great grandson, Gage and godson, Ronnie Heim.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Thinking of all of you during this sad time. Mothers are so special. She will truly be missed by so many. May she rest in peace. Sending my love to all of you.

Bev Vonnahme – April 30 2023 at 8:42 PM

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She was a wonderful aunt. I remember a particularly lively game of '31' at her sister-in-law's, my aunt Esther's, when I was in my fifties which included Lola, Esther, another aunt Sandy and both my parents, Ray and Jean. Always lots laughs. So sorry I could not attend her funeral, but will keep you and all her family in my thoughts and prayers. Tom Heim

Tom Heim – May 18 2023 at 2:50 PM

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Lit a candle in memory of Lola Heim

Doreen and Ken Berg – April 27 2023 at 11:05 PM

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1 file added to the album Lola

EUGENE MARTIN – April 30 2023 at 8:18 PM

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Beautiful Heart Bouquet was purchased for the family of Lola Heim.

Comment #43577691 – April 29 2023 at 11:51 AM

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