Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Ethel Reiff, 97 of Carroll, died Friday, April 28, 2023, at St. Anthony Nursing Home in Carroll surrounded by all her children.
Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 11 a.m., Tuesday, May 2, 2023, at St. Lawrence Church – St. John Paul II Parish in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Fr. Kevin Richter. Music will be by Kathy Halbur. Lectors for the Funeral Mass will be Sue Twit and Rich Reiff. Gift Bearers and Casket Bearers will be Ethel’s grandchildren; son-in-law, Tom Twit is Eucharistic Minister. Burial will be in Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Cemetery in Mt. Carmel.
Visitation will be from 9:30-10:45 a.m. on Tuesday at St. Lawrence Church prior to the Funeral Mass. Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Ethel’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.
Ethel was the 10th of 13 children born to John and Anna (Niehaus) Staiert on January 3, 1926. On February 5, 1947, she was united in marriage to Ray Reiff at St. Francis Church in Maple River. To this union were five children. In addition to managing a busy household, Ethel was an excellent cook and baker. She also gardened, canned the fruits of her labors, raised chickens, and sold eggs.
Ethel applied her math skills to playing cards; bridge being her favorite game. She continued playing bridge in her recent 4 years living at Garden View Assisted Living and twice monthly at Orchard View. In earlier years she played in bridge marathons at local churches.
Ethel contributed to the community by volunteering with St. Anthony Hospital Auxiliary, St. Lawrence Ladies Guild, New Hope Village Store, and delivering meals on wheels with her good friend, Norma Burns.
Additional hobbies included cross stitch, crocheting, and sewing. Always interested in health and fitness, she was an avid walker; a proud accomplishment was a second-place medal for the over 60 age group in a 10k (6.2 mile) run/walk at Swan Lake. Ethel and Ray enjoyed dancing, traveling, and camping trips with relatives and friends.
Ethel is survived by her children: Richard (Kathy) Reiff of Fitchburg, WI, Sue (Tom) Twit of Bennington, NE, Tom (Cheryl) Reiff of Coralville, Cindy (Alan) Kraus of Carroll, and Jean Reiff of Carroll; 13 grandchildren; 26 great-grandchildren; 2 great-great grandchildren; her sisters-in-law and brothers-in-law: Alice Staiert, Ella Mae Staiert, Harriet Staiert, Karen Schouten, Jean (Clifford) Eischeid, and Art Reiff; as well as other extended relatives.
Ethel was preceded in death by her parents; her husband Ray Reiff; and her siblings: Loretta Reiff, Agnes Gehling, Rosina Wiederin, Hilda Bruch, Marita Heires, Anita Bellinghausen and Elmer, Henry, Walter, Edwin, Leo and Paul Staiert.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Tribute Wall

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Deepest sympathy to the Reiff family on the passing of Ethel. She was such a classy lady.

Denise Riddle – April 30 2023 at 10:20 AM

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Such a sweet caring lady and her presence willbe missed. May she rest in peace

Renee Greve – April 30 2023 at 9:19 PM

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Our thoughts and prayers are with Ethel's family. She was a kind and thoughtful person and touched many lives with her kindness. With our deepest condolences. Mal and Rosie Foley

Rosemary Foley – May 01 2023 at 10:54 AM

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To Tom, Rich, Sue, Cindy and Jean. I will always remember the years of growing up in Mount Carmel and your mom being like a second mom to me. I am sorry for your loss, but I am sure she will find eternal joy. Larry Goecke

Larry Goecke – May 01 2023 at 11:03 AM

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So sorry for the loss of your mother. She was a sweet, loving woman. And had good taste, too! (She liked my potato soup.) Hugs and prayers for you all. Marlene and Loras Hoffmann

Marlene Hoffmann – May 02 2023 at 1:00 PM

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