Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Ernest Middleton Jr., 70 of Halbur, died Sunday, April 14, 2024 at St. Anthony Regional Hospital in Carroll.

Private services will be held.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Ernest’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Ernest James Middleton II, 70, passed away on April 14,2024 after a short battle with cancer. Ernest was born May 21, 1953, in Waterloo, IA to Ernest James Middleton of Waterloo, IA and Millicent May Hendrickson of Cardiff Wales. Ernest attended Waterloo East High School and graduated in 1971. While at East High School he participated in wrestling and football. He received a wrestling scholarship at Winona State where he earned NAIA All-American Honors three times, finishing 4th, 3rd and 2nd place. Ernest earned a Bachelor of Science degree in Life Science from Winona State University in Winona, MN. There he was later inducted into the National Hall of Fame in 2018. Ernest pursued a career in education (teaching and coaching) and impacted the lives of thousands of students in Minnesota, Iowa and Texas. Teaching was his passion. Outside of the classroom he was passionate about anything associated with the outdoors. He enjoyed and took pride in his garden, fishing, riding bike, grilling and watching movies with Denise.

Ernest married Carol Baer, and from that union four sons were born: Ernest James (Carrie), Damion Ray (Chuntel), Keane Niles, and Brandon Anthony (Denise). The couple later divorced. Ernest also has a daughter Siri, and a son Corey.

In 2000, Ernest married Denise Riesselman with whom he enjoyed his last thirty-one years. They made their home in Halbur, IA. He enjoyed helping his father and mother-in-law with their outdoor work. He loved visiting with the neighbors while grilling for everyone.

Ernest is survived by his wife Denise, his children, many grandchildren and great grandchildren, his siblings Valerie Allen, Joseph Middleton, and Kelly Shineflew, half-sisters: Leona Middleton and Maggie Middleton Isaac, nieces, nephews, great nieces, great nephews and a plethora of friends. He is also survived by his in-laws Dean (Doris) Riesselman, DeAnn Eischeid, Deb Neubauer, Dan (Jeannie) Riesselman.

He is preceded in death by his father and mother, his brothers Melville Peter, Keith Spite, and Shawn Richards and one sister Millicent Williams Shabazz. Leonard and Donna Riesselman (mother and father-in-law) and Randy Eischeid (brother-in-law).

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Tribute Wall

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Denise,so very sorry to hear of Ernie's death. Keeping you in prayer. Peg Scheidt

Peg Scheidt – April 17 2024 at 7:52 PM

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Sorry to hear about the passing of my life long friend Ernest.We grew up as neighbors in Waterloo .I loved him like a brother.Condolences and much love to his entire family.

John Dunn – April 18 2024 at 10:55 AM

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Denise, our sympathy for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Leon and Cathy Williams – April 19 2024 at 6:41 PM

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Denise and family, I was so sorry to hear of Ernest's passing. We don't know the plans God has for each of us but it sounds like he touched many souls while living that needed his special gift of kindness. I ask God to comfort your soul as you continue without him. Much love and prayers, Mary Ann Schulte

Mary Ann Schulte – April 22 2024 at 3:17 PM

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Ernie, Your focus and command from the mat was something to watch! A Warrior Forever:flag-us: Prayers and Blessings to the entire Middleton family🙏 Greg and Kim Mauer

Greg Mauer – April 23 2024 at 7:34 PM

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